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1 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | Brian.g | 31292 | ||
Pricefhome I would like to offer my assistance, if I may. With that, could you answer some questions for me: 1. How long have you been married 2. How old are your children 3. Are drugs, alcohol or violence involved in your marriage or private lives for either. 4. Do you have severe financial problems 5. Do either of you suffer from real mental health problems. 6. Have either of you been or continue to be unfaithful to the other. 7. Do both or either of you have permament employment 8. What is the 12 Step Support Group you're involved with 9. What are your wifes reasons for wanting a divorce. 10. After 2 years, why hasn't she filed for a divorce. 11. Does your wife respect you and you, her. If not, why 12.Prior to joining the 'start-up' church, do you and/or your wife have any denominational history - were either of you brought up in a specific denomination, etc. 13. When you say you have not loved your wife for many years - do you mean physically or emotionally. 14. Have you ever hit or beat your wife Brian |
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2 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | pricefhome | 31664 | ||
1. Married, 9years 2. One boy 9years, One boy 4years 3. No! 4. Yes! 5. No 6. No...that I'm aware of. 7. We both were, I lost my bank job of three years, Today! 8. 12 Step is a christian support group for various issues..."Codependacy-my issue and my father was an alcoholic...so my family was very disfuctional" 9. We never loved each other...ect. she is in agreement with that so-call prophet's point of view... 10. I think its been a financial issue, no assets for her to go after and also, her counsious keeps her here... 11. Neither...this has always been an issue! I'm very critical as a person...temperment, Perfectionest. 12. Both Church of Christ 13. Both. |
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3 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | Brian.g | 31670 | ||
What do you mean when you say your issue is codependacy. Define how your family life was dysfunctional. Tell me 3 or 4 things about your about your wife which you don't respect. Does your wife still work Brian |
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4 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | pricefhome | 31787 | ||
I'm sorry but you seem very inexperienced in your questions...how long have you followed Christ as your Lord? | ||||||
5 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | Brian.g | 31791 | ||
You came to the internet to seek advice as to whether you should divorce your wife. If you would like assistance, I am willing to assist, but not without some background information. The answers you are seeking are to important to the lives of you, your wife and your children. I think you realize that the Bible offers more guidance than just: when, where, and how to divorce your spouse. If we can find those parts of the Bible which are better able to address the source of the problem, then maybe you won't have to address the question of divorce. I'm here if I can be of any assistance. If not, I will wish and pray for nothing less than the best for you. Brian |
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6 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | charis | 31800 | ||
Dear Brian G. Greetings in the name of the Lord Jesus! Meaning no disrespect, but I think that we should not ask other people to divulge too much personal information on this very public forum. If we really feel that we can be of assistance to someone, it is only common courtesy to offer a more private means of communication, i.e. an email address in our personal profile. To all I say, we are here to share from our experiences, our study, our heart and our calling to the body of Christ. However, there is a certain propriety that must be maintained for the sake of other members. Whatever we may propound, the true working of God in a person's life will probably occur in an environment of physical (not virtual) fellowship, one with mutual responsibility and love that is manifest in daily communion. Let us never think that this forum is any kind of replacement for the local church, and for true shepherding in the unction of the Holy Spirit. Sheep and shepherds alike have accountability before God that cannot be measured in an internet relationship. Please note that I do not discourage all pleas for help and questions about personal needs! Indeed, many saints are not in a church that will provide these fundamental Christian services. (how sad and shameful!) But 'airing our laundry' is no replacement for Godly counsel. I ask those with 1) a calling from God to shepherd (pastor/elder/deacon), and 2) a certain amount of spiritual maturity and experience in the area of responsibility, to make themselves available on a more personal level. This can be done using internet mail services such as Hotmail. For those unwilling to 'get involved,' please do not offer advice beyond basic Bible sense and encouragement to seek the counsel of a responsible shepherd of the flock. Brian, I'm sorry to use 'your' post as a place to comment to all our fellow forumers. I hope you will understand my motive is not to speak to you personally. In Christ Jesus, charis |
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7 | Should we Divorce? | Mal 2:16 | Brian.g | 31812 | ||
Thank you Brian |
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