Bible Question: My fiance believes that we are considered married, just because we said a prayer unto GOD that we are married,which he says that it is only between us and GOD. Also he believes that we are now allowed to have sex. I think I need lots of help. Confused.... |
Bible Answer: Hi, Pris. You wrote: "My fiance believes that we are considered married, just because we said a prayer unto GOD that we are married,which he says that it is only between us and GOD." A marriage is more than just a prayer to God. It is a public, societally-acknowledged commitment before God and men. That's why weddings are events to which guests are invited, and why even if you go to the justice of the peace there have to be witnesses who sign the certificate. While someone may argue that the state doesn't ultimately determine whether someone is married or not, it does involve more than a privately whispered prayer between two individuals and God. "Also he believes that we are now allowed to have sex. I think I need lots of help." Here is some help. Repeat after me: "NO, not yet!" If he doesn't respect you and honor God enough not to manipulate you into sex, imagine how life is going to be once he IS your husband... --Joe! |