Bible Question: My fiance believes that we are considered married, just because we said a prayer unto GOD that we are married,which he says that it is only between us and GOD. Also he believes that we are now allowed to have sex. I think I need lots of help. Confused.... |
Bible Answer: Pris, Your fiancee is manipulating you to get what he wants without making any real committment on his own part. It is that simple. He may even be fooling himslf on this, but he knows what he is after. Being married is very like being pregnant, either you are or you are not. Being considered pregnant is not a reality, being pregnant is. If there are men on this forum who thinks your fiancee is being honest I would like to hear from them. And let's see if any man here with a daughter would tell his daughter to believe that line if she was being told the same thing. Chances are slim and none. And Slim probably just left town on a train. " A Man shall cleave to his wife." not his fiancee. Tell your fiancee that short of a special revelation from God you will wait for the real deal when he commits himself to you in front of witnesses in God's house. Emmaus |