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1 | Submit . . . unless it hurts? | Eph 5:33 | srchng | 66654 | ||
charis, Thank you. This sounds like good reasoning. I will poder it. No, fortunately I've never had to counsel a wife in a physically abusive relationship. But I suppose my first inclination would be to find a safe place for her and then get her husband corrected . . . maybe have him dragged naked through a briar patch. I would never advocate any kind of spousal abuse, physical or other. I wonder if, since it truly seems insane to think that a wife should tolerate physical abuse, (because her husband has already left her, or nullified the marriage)does it then follow that she should not tolerate relational neglegence, distance, etc. because he's already "left her," and is not fulfilling his husbandly duties. I agree that it seems a line should exist. but I'm not eager to draw it arbitrarily. That seems arrogant. I want to know if God said where the line is. And if wives are submitting to their husbands "as unto the Lord" when they leave for reasons of abuse (physical or other,) then doesn't the same reasoning dictate that we all should leave Christ when we feel He's not meeting our physical needs, protecting us from physical pain or threat of death, or generally taking care of us like a good husband? I don't think simple logic or rational argumentation can get us where we need to go here. It seems there must be something more. The trouble I see is that some women marry violent or abusive men, and scripture isn't clear to me on what those wives should do about it. At the turn of every page, it seems that the Bible is silent on this. I just want to see what I'm missing. I want the direction my questions point in to be proven wrong. But I want scripture, not just the cultural/political correctness I might otherwise lean toward. Thanks -srchng |
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2 | Submit . . . unless it hurts? | Eph 5:33 | charis | 66690 | ||
Dear srchng, Greetings in the name of Jesus! My friend, I well understand your desire for specific, pertinent Scripture. But please understand that there are times that the Bible often speaks through implication. I am pretty sure that the Word is not going to tell you how to fix Pentium 90MHz PC with 8MB RAM. But we might infer: "So Jesus then said to them plainly, "Lazarus is dead!" John 11:14 NASB. :-) Sorry, a little PCtech humor. Seriously, my friend, you must sometimes trust common sense and good advice. "Wisdom shouts in the street, She lifts her voice in the square;" Proverbs 1:20 NASB. "For by wise guidance you will wage war, And in abundance of counselors there is victory." Proverbs 24:6 NASB. Finally and foremost, understand that these situations must be solved case-by-case. There is no absolute. I HAVE been involved in many cases of physical and-or emotional abuse. My counsel was always accompanied by prayer and fasting, searching the Bible, and seeking the mind of God through the leading of the Holy Spirit. Each soul is individually precious in God's sight, and must be treated as such. But common sense dictates that if physical abuse is evident (not just perceived), then get that person away from the violence! (in all candor, DUH!) Now, my forum fellow, a bit of advice. If this is a specific situation, and you are asking for help, I think you have enough to work with. If, however, this is just FYI (for YOUR information), and you are asking out of idle curiosity, you are close to being annoying. You are insisting that 'there must be something more,' but some very insightful saints have told you there really IS no more. Frankly, unless there is a specific situation involving real people, then you have fallen into 'empty philosophy.' If there IS a real person involved, then the next step is to ask for pastoral advice from an experienced, trustworthy shepherd. I must go to school! (I'm the principal! :-)) Peace in Christ Jesus, charis |
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