Bible Question:
I am a married christian woman who's husband is currently in basic training for the National Guard. The training lasts 8 months and we were both wondering (discussions prior to his leave and currently through letters) if masturbation while apart and thinking only of each other during the act is a sin. Corinthians 7:1-6 got us thinking and realizing sex is very important and that it should be used to please and satisfy each other. Now if the act and confessing of masturbation (while recalling previous pleasureable sexual activities between each other or fanasties involving each other) "turns on" each other especially when whispered in ears as foreplay when reunioned in the bedroom again, how does that apply? Thank you. |
Bible Answer: the bible says that were to have self control and when you masterbate we are still pleasing yourself ..even though you are married . doing whatthe flesh desires, I mean..keep our minds focused on what is important |