Bible Question: ok..i praise God for allowing me to find this website! I am a blood redeemed child of God.I recently re-married my ex husband because we bought a home together, and we were living together in this house to raise the children together. I did not love him then and i don't now. i don't want to hurt him, so I have never told him how I really feel. I have no desire to be with him and i know that divorce is wrong (and it would kill him), but I feel so trapped, miserable,and disarrayed. i know what the bible says on forgiveness and I have forgiven him but I choose not to be with him if I had a choice. How do I handle this situation? |
Bible Answer: Since you are in a great difficulty of heart, here what I would recommend to you. Being in the ministry, I saw many problems between couples. Be sure that you recognize that your remarriage has been a fault in two senses. First, you did not love your husband and your motives to remarry him were very wrong. You are a sinner, so welcome in the club! Tell God your sorrow asking Him to forgive your sin (even though I think you have already done that). Please, now forgive to yourself and ask God to help you to be able to cope with this delicate situation. You have put yourself in a very difficult situation, but there is hope with God. God has surely a plan through what seems to be a desperate cause for now, but that will become a subject of His glory for the future. Try your best to fall in love with Jesus and unload your feeling, fears and tears before Him as often you want and you'll see something happen soon. Have a good time with Him in prayer and never give up. He is God. |