Bible Question: ok..i praise God for allowing me to find this website! I am a blood redeemed child of God.I recently re-married my ex husband because we bought a home together, and we were living together in this house to raise the children together. I did not love him then and i don't now. i don't want to hurt him, so I have never told him how I really feel. I have no desire to be with him and i know that divorce is wrong (and it would kill him), but I feel so trapped, miserable,and disarrayed. i know what the bible says on forgiveness and I have forgiven him but I choose not to be with him if I had a choice. How do I handle this situation? |
Bible Answer: Dear Humbled2serve:I have read all the advice given by our expert team of marriage counselors. Why did you marry Mr. Right a second time? My big concern is your children. You say you husband makes you feel trapped, miserable, and you have no desire to be with him. Not to mention he is comfortable hanging out with a homosexual friend. Does any of this seem a little odd to you? What are you teaching by your example to your children? Is this a marriage where you were forced into? I will bet you children are being subjected to things that just not ought to be. Frind you need to get some serious counseling, quick. Are you not worried that with so many sexual encounters you life could be indanger? God expects yiu to protecr your children, and use you God given internal gut feelings. What woman in her right mind would love being abused? What you have said is I deserve this relationship. I don't deserve any better. My question is why? Any christian who says to stay in this relationship is lacking in understanding of what scripyure says about a husband. I believe there are those so narrow in understanding scripyure they have you stay inthis situation regardless of the risk your children are in say nothing of you. GET OUT ASAP! A house is not a home, and not worth what you seem to be payibg emotionally for it. agape, justme |