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1 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | heaven | 50147 | ||
How do you keep someone who has just lost a parent from being angry with God? My Boyfriend and I are both disciples/christians a little while after our son was born his mother past away. It has been almost a year now and he has just began to cope with his mother's passing. Along with trying to understand why his mom is gone a lot of questions he has about God has come up and he has also began to wonder if his mom is in heaven or hell. He has a lot of anger in him and I can see him beginning to change, he has become more worldly and less spiritual. He has even stopped praying and reading his bible. As for me it has become really difficult to handle him being unspiritual, now our lives and our beliefs are totally different. We were also planning on getting married this year now everything is placed on hold, because I do not feel good about marrying him being this unspirtual. Also, I would like our son to have a spiritual father who could teach our son about the goodness of God. It hurts me to him going back to his old lifestyle before he became a christian. I want to help him through this and I want us to become a family. But it is becoming very difficult for me to remain spiritual throughout all of this because it feels like I am just giving and giving and nothing is getting any better. I understand it takes a very long time to handle when a parent passes but how do I make him see that God still loves him. I pray that someone out there can give me some good advice on how to deal with this situation. |
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2 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | justme | 50283 | ||
Dear Heaven: I see several issues in you question: I need to be honest, but loving at the same time. We reap what we sow is one principle of Gods. Byy your statement it appears you have a child by this man, with whom you are living with. Please correct me if I have not understood this correctly. One prob;em is that you are living in fornication, which is sin. You cand expect God tho change himor you when you refuse to repent of you sinful living arrangement. You say you are going to get married. Why would you want to? There are many believers like you, who are going to do things their way. Gods way is coutship, marriage, honeynoon, and establish a home, start your family. That's Gods ideal. However we fail. I suggest you and your fathers father part until he is genuinely saved, and you have a ring, and date to marry, and get married and then unite as husband and wife. This is called repentance. Your boyfriends grief needs Gods healing touch. God can habdel his anger. Whit some Godly counseling he might heal qquycker and in a healthy way. I woild say you both have your basket full. I encourage to turn to Christ and become a follower of His ways. Should you choose to continue living as you are I see little help for you or him. I pray you will be strong enough to do what is pleasing to God. agape, justme |
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3 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | heaven | 50442 | ||
Dear Justme Thank you for your advice. I know I should have put this in my original question, but my boyfriend and me conceived our son before we became a Christian. I know my question was confusing in that respect "I apologize". I take my decision to serve my Lord very seriously. We are not living together and we are remaining absolutely pure until we become married. I do not practice hypocritical Christianity; I keep close watch over my life and doctrine very closely. I agree with the end of you letter "I suggest you and your child's father part until he is genuinely saved, and you have a ring, and date to marry, and get married and then unite as husband and wife. This is called repentance" we are actually doing this right know. We did not officially begin to date each other again until we were both Christians. Before he began to struggle and doubt God, we had made it to the point when we were about to begin pre-marital counseling, but then all this happened, now everything has been placed on hold. Our convictions and love for the Lord is slowly changing and not to mention the relationship also. I love having a spiritual relationship, and now things are so different. It’s becoming difficult for me to trust him because he is growing further from God. I am really trying to be patient with him and I have been studying “love” and “wisdom” in the bible, because it has sometimes been a challenge for me to love him the way I used to. Because spiritually he is unable to take care of me the way he used too. I am really trying to understand or at least empathize with what he is going through, but its just like I want to snap him out of it because satan has him so deceived into thinking our Lord is not good and righteous and his walk with God is all in vain. It really hurts my heart to see him pulling from God. I have tried buying him books about grieving and God, calling some of the brothers from our church so he can open up to someone else besides me, and even praying with him, but it still seems like his heart is so hard. I have faith God is going to work all of this out I just need the lord to give me direction. Thanks. |
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4 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | justme | 50476 | ||
That was very sensitive and open of you to share all that you did. You will Have our prayers. If you do not all ready have the book TOUGH LOVE may I suggest it. I have known of several situations like yours. One of our fest friends, whom we have known from 1974, and they are old fokes now, got married when she was 14 and he was 21. She did not even know how to make mashed patatoes! They have been married more than 38 years anf have served the Lord for a very long time. With God all things are possible, if we are willing to follow Him. I pray your childs father will. God will be with you all the way regardless or which way the outcome is. agape, justme. |
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5 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | heaven | 50490 | ||
Thanks justme, for getting back to me so quickly. The book you mentioned Tough Love who is it by, and can you give me a brief description also. thanks, heaven |
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6 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | justme | 50492 | ||
I believe it;s by Dr. James dobson. Any half way good Christian book stor will have it or order it in a few days. Basicly the Book gives suggestions how to deal with peeople in situations much like youre agape, justme |
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