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1 | Exasperate - examples? | Col 3:21 | dmspen | 69 | ||
Clearly we cannot, as parents, not set limits or rules. I believe the context here is that we shouldn't set rules that we, as our children's role models, don't follow. We should not have the "Do as I say, not as I do" rule in affect. This causes our children to be confused as to what to do. The best way to raise a child (in the ways of the Lord) is to be the example for them. I also believe 'exasperate' means we should not set unattainable limits or rules for our children, then punish them when they CAN'T follow them. Additionally, I think that parents should always explain to their children what they've done wrong and remind them of the consequences. It is unfair, and exasperating, for a child to be punished without any idea that an action was wrong, or not even knowing what they did wrong. Being a parent is difficult. As a parent, especially a father, you set the ground rules of how your child perceives and understands God. What a frightenening and awesome, and exciting, responsibility! As far as an example of some of this: We have some friends who have set limits on their teen that cannot possibly be followed. He has to sit still, not flip through TV channels, and is basically treated the same as the younger kids. I've seen him explode more than once with, "What am I doing wrong? It's not fair!" and similar statements. When we 'box' our children in too tight, they will explode and we may lose them. Be kind, gentle, but firm. Let them know their limitations and boundaries. Never punish in anger and always explain what they did wrong, remind them of the rules and consequences, and love them with your whole heart. Make sure you tell them that often! Hope this helps. | ||||||
2 | Exasperate - examples? | Col 3:21 | getsmart | 158 | ||
Great insights, appreciate your input and others will as well! | ||||||