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1 | Do I need to leave the church? | James 1:26 | Recamier | 163500 | ||
In my church, the minister often spreads rumors about the people she doesn't like. So most of her followers exclude those people. Because I don't want to be one of them, I am excluded, too. Do I need to leave that church? | ||||||
2 | Do I need to leave the church? | James 1:26 | lionheart | 163511 | ||
Recamier, Greetings and welcome to the forum,boy oh boy there are so many issues raised here I scarcely know where to begin.I kind of get the impression that you are a new christian or very young in the faith. I guess the one question I would have right now would be as already been recomended is that you are praying and have you voiced your concerns to the minister and those concerned? God never created any lone rangers where His church is concerned. Fellowship is vital,it's important to our spiritual health.Dont be afraid to speak up,just do it with a godly heart and perspective,and if there is no answer or change forthcomming then as has already been advised you should consider and act on finding a fellowship that teaches,honors and glorifies God and His Word.Trust God to show you where to go He will get you there. In Him, lionheart |
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3 | Do I need to leave the church? | James 1:26 | Saint Luke | 163518 | ||
Recarnier, First thing I would do is FOLLOW GOD'S WORD!!!!! Lets first see if she should be in the position she is in to begin with. 1 Tim 2:12 says, "But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet." If the congregation is all women, I don't see a problem with it. If the menbership has men in it, SHE should not be in authority over a man. Is she Married??? If yes, she should not be in the position she is in. The other supporting Scriptures are: 1 Tim 3:2 An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach..... Titus 1:6 namely, if any man is above reproach, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of dissipation or rebellion. The Word Of God says "the husband of one wife" never "the wife of one husband".... As advised by brenda L to pray about it...why? is GOD going to change HIS word IF YOU ARE DIRECTLY AGAINST THE WORD OF GOD, YOU ARE WRONG. Praying about it is not going to change GOD'S WORD......or GOD'S mind...... Advice to you. If she is married, or she is in a position of authority over a man, why are you still attending the church? Find one that follows the Word Of GOD, In Christ, Luke |
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4 | What say you? | James 1:26 | lionheart | 163523 | ||
Luke, Goodmorning,no argument here.Did I say something here unscriptural? This is not about this person praying to change Gods Word.What do you know about this person? Does this person know any better? Is this a young or new christian? Has anyone asked these questions? I'm not Mr. perfect by any sense of the word,not even close.I just try with the help of God and the help of a lot of very dear men and women of God to be the best man of God I know how to be. This forum is and has been an opportunity for people to make a difference,to learn,to encourage,to share.God has done some great things with this forum.What it is not is a platform for us to be arguing or lambasting each other. (I'm not intending to point a finger at anyone,let me be clear about that.)We're family lets have the same compassion for each other that God has for us. So why dont we make the effort to find out a little more about this person so we can lovingly and firmly disciple and advise this person in the admonition of the Lord. What do you think? In Christ, lionheart. |
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5 | What say you? | James 1:26 | Saint Luke | 163535 | ||
lionheart, Sorry for the misunderstanding, this wasn't directed towards you. I was sure I directed it to "recarnier". I didn't feel I was lambasting anybody, or arguing, just quoting what scripture says. Don't need to know a whole lot about a person to identify something that is incorrect. Maybe I don't write with the eloquence of some, but why have this person continue in a situation that is out of GOD'S will (if you believe what is taught in the Word)for years and years, having this false teachings and who knows what else instilled in their tender and impressional heart until they are "a mature Christian" (which you know as well as I, this probably will never occur if this church can't see this is incorrect procedure) Do you leave a child in the middle of the street until he "matures" (learns on his own what the stop lights mean) or do you take them out of the street and teach them? brend L clearly said, "First thing I would do is pray for her...and also ask God what you should do (in prayer)." What to do, What to do...Pray versus obey......hard choice??? We already know some of GOD'S will, it is written down for us...I just provided the references (pointed out the obvious) for recarnier. I guess you are right, we don't know if this person is even saved, or has even heard the Gospel, as it is presented in GOD's word. Maybe I should start asking them to descibe their salvation experince. It may be a real I opener for me. And yes, I did read the disclaimer before I submitted. Sorry again for the misunderstanding. Saint Luke |
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6 | What say you? | James 1:26 | lionheart | 163537 | ||
Luke, No misunderstanding,communication is'nt always one my strongest suits. No offence taken.I didnt think you were being critical or anything otherwise. I believe that God has given us a huge opportunity with the forum to reach out to people and make a difference. I know it's been more of blessing to me than I can even begin to express. I have friendships and relationships now that I would not have otherwise. Thats the great thing about being part of the kingdom of God,no matter where we may be on this ole planet we can always find family. When you have opportunity check out my user profile,it has my e-mail address.Drop me a line I'd like to get to know ya a little bit better and I would be amenable to firing of my phone number also. Stay strong Luke, lionheart |
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7 | What should I do? | James 1:26 | Recamier | 163548 | ||
Thank those who answered my question(do I need to leave the church?). Yes, I am a new Christian. Yes, the minister is married and has children.She has attended the church for about 20 years. She has been a minister about 5 years. She has a very good reputation among her followers. Yes, I talked with her and her followers. After that, I am excluded. They think I am not on their side. If I want to be part of them, I have to be like them. Yes, I have prayed for this for months. But I am not sure the message I got is really from God. The message is " Wait". Recently, I find I am acting like them.I started to mark people, forget about my promises,talk about gossips and spread rumors. I am shocked! I have become someone I don't like! That's why I ask this question here. After I read the answers, I have another question. I know the fellowship is vital. But I am afraid the similar situation will happen again.What should I do? I still want to know more about God. I still want to worship Him. What should I do? |
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8 | What should I do? | James 1:26 | DocTrinsograce | 163553 | ||
Dear Recamier, I don't mean to be flippant... so forgive me... but why don't you find a church whose doctrinal position is more in keeping with the Word? Although it doesn't mean that a church is perfect -- none of them are -- but one with a masculine pastorate would certainly be a first good indication. In Him, Doc |
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