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1 | Christians living together outside of ma | 1 Corinthians | PutGodFirst | 194068 | ||
justme-Thank you for your insight. Repentence, then forgiveness. To be sincerely repentant. Not just forgiveness without repentance. We have been through more than you can imagine with my son. He is a constant liar. We asked a simple question if they are living together and fornicating. We get a harsh email from her mother (also a Christian) stating that she as well as the pastor see nothing wrong with her living there because nothing wrong is going on. Why didnt my son and his fiance tells us that themselves? Why the lying? How are we to trust him? He has lied and justified it so many times. He lies (and uses God as well) to get what he wants. It is hard to admit this but it is true. We are the ONLY ones(outside of the Lord) that know so much about him as well as the truth. He is disrespectful and rude to us as well as very prideful (he always has been even as a child he would never humble himself).If he can not humble himself before man he will never humble himself before God. This whole thing has been a big mess. Instead of the pastor, her mom and us dealing with them about this, my husband and I are having to justify our standards which are God's standards. They are being disobedient and with the blessings of other Christians. | ||||||
2 | Christians living together outside of ma | 1 Corinthians | justme | 194119 | ||
PutGodFirst: Without going into much detail, may I say we have exepeinced the same except even worse, more than five times in our lives. I can fully empathize with you. Hank has said it so kindly to you, and I would read his note again. By all you have said I sincerely doubt your son is born again. Which is one reason to look at this situation is a different way. Salt never attracts flys. Sugar attracts flys all on it's own. Kindness and extending God's Love, Mercy and Grace are the better solution to reach a lost son and his bride. May God grant you wisdom in what you so chose to do. Blessings justme |
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