1 Corinthians

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Bible Question (short): ..confidence, trust, belief and courage?

Question (full): Amanda the butterfly!
yes, we are very happy when we are together even though she avoids the words pertaining to the meaning " i love you ".. she has left and returned a number of times leaving me sad and hurt. I know that she feels contentment when she is close to me.. but, she cannot commit. She says she doesn't want to be with me, that we wont be together. All his while she has kept the fire burning in me alive! She does feel something indeed.. but why not the commitment, why does she look to tarot card readings and astrology for her answers and says she should have been orthodox. She is lost and insecure, lacking trust and not confiding in me. She recognises my qaulities and agrees I'm a good person and that she is attracted to me. I feel she needs spiritual evolution, a profound re-establishment of her psyche and life values. A pillar to give her confidence in herself and genuine existence. How can I help her, help us to be sure of a more stable and solid stance in life and in our relationship? You can lead a horse to water but cannot make him drink" .. i have a problem leading this "horse" to water, she doesn't get to even see what there is to drink. I need her evolution, our relationship depends on it.
Are there any good answers and information available, any codes or solutions?
I Love her.
Her behaviour and attitude leave me confronted by a pschological wall. I don't want to upset her. How could she see what there is to "drink", before again she flutters off back and forth in her seemingly sad state of serenity. thank you.
boLB*

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