Bible Question:
1. Could husband and wife orally stimulate each other before having sex? |
Bible Answer: There is no scriptural 'yes or no' to this. But if you read Song of Solomons in light of your question, you may be biased to a 'yes'. But all things matrimonial must be tempered within a loving relationship and must be done in agreement, not in selfishness. Alot is spoken concerning conduct outside of marriage settings, mostly against indulging in sex before marriage, but precious little is written on what is permisible or not within matrimony. It is as if room to become 'one' has been created. I beleive this 'becoming' one is done over time and not done only when one says 'I DO'. I also beleive that the becoming one, is mainly welded together through the act of holy matrimony or sex, whereby couples explore one another over time until they have 'become one' in everything. Paul exhorts wives to submit to their husbands in the Lord and husbands to love their wives. Also he counsels married people not deny one another in matters of sex except by mutual consent. Read 1 Cor 7, it places other related things in perspective. At 14 years in the art of 'becoming one', I consider myself a teen, still exploring. May be older folks in this area may shade more light... I hope this helps though. Andy |