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1 | handling relationships as a Christian | Matthew | justme | 85985 | ||
gab: Welcome to the Forum! Scripture says not to be unequally yoked. Paul in several places, as well as the writer of Hebrews, points out that those who do not continue in the faith, were not really in the faith from the begining. As this is not a "Dear Abby" forum, any advice that is not based on solid scripture is unfounded. In reading your question, I think you know the answer already. You have a deep lever of emotional investment and a history with "your partner" and this makes it difficult to leave. Many a marriages have lasted for several years and got to the point you are, and I am sure they would wish they had walked away before they made such a bad choice. I believe God is aware of your situation, and will lead you through this, if you allow Him to do so. Now gab, it is all up to your being willing to be obedient to the Word of God. I pray you God's peace and blessings. justme |
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2 | handling relationships as a Christian | Matthew | gab | 90528 | ||
Hi, To the saints and faithful brethren in our LORD Jesus Christ Grace be unto you, and peace, from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. This is just to tell and encourage everyone going through the same problem. I thank everyone that gave me advice through the Word of our Lord Jesus Christ. I realised I was doing everything in my own strength and capabilities. The Holy Spirit of our Lord Jesus Christ showed me and directed me on what to do. After all this happened between my partner and I. I started to pray and fast for her salvation, our relationship and every other thing that was going on in my life. My brethrens in Christ prayer truly WORKS. I know prayer works but as a believer we tend to forget that Jesus Christ is always there with us in our times of joy, trouble, afflictions, in our minds or what ever we may be doing but He is always there through is Holy Spirit. I thank you brethrens for letting me realise I had to let go. during this process I left everything totally to the HOly Spirit of our Lord Jesus Christ and just praying and feeding on the Word. I prayed to our Lord Jesus that if this woman is truly for me let her come back on her own free will and if not let your Good will be done and fulfilled in my life. I just want to tell you that Jesus Christ truly cares for us. He cares about our feeelings, our thoughts, our troubles. He cares for everything as long as all our trust is in Him and that He comes first in our lives. My partner called me back a few weeks back saying how she wants to work things out explaining she didnt know what was going on in her mind that she was just at a confused state. Cut the story short we have patched things up and everything is back to normal its like nothing happened. The Holy Spirit really took control of the situation after I let go. She has started coming back to church and started praying together again. One thing the Holy Spirit has thought me that I realise is that prayer works and whenever we have troubles the first thing is to turn to God not how we can quickly fix the situation. I have also realised through the Holy Spirit that we are all not on the same faith level(i used to really try and push and shove my partner into the things of GOD before this and when she didnt do it we used to argue). Now I have learnt that if there something that I dont like or is upsetting me about my partner I know who to turn to. JESUS CHRIST. After all He created her so He knows her better than I do. I have really learnt how to be patient and prayerful now and not to worry about things because GOD ALMIGHTY through our LORD JESUS CHRIST is in absolute control of all things. My partner still sees the woman friend she has(who i used to blame as part of the problem). She still goes out sometimes but I have learnt that I am not the one who does the changing JESUS CHRIST does and that has giving me all the peace in which i didnt have before. Everytime I think of Jesus Christ now I just feel very happy because our GOD is a very Good GOD. I still have a lot of issues in my life but this situation has nade me realise that whatever we may go or pass through Jesus CHrist is always present He might want you to seek him more sometimes but I assure you my brethrens in Christ our LORD Jesus Christ is always there. A friend of mine phoned me a few days ago who is going through a similar problem. I was so pleased to tell him what to do. LEave it to GOD through His Holy Spirit and what ever you do dont try and fix things with your own strength because you will definately fail. Just pray. Even my brother so the changes and he started praying for his partner as well and he as told his partner has changed miraculously as well. I pray this helps someone on this forum going through the same problem. I also thank everyone who took time to reply to me. I thank Jesus Christ for you all. GOD BLESS you all and everyone else who believe JESUS CHRIST is LORD regards, gab |
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3 | Partner? | Matthew | mdc14561 | 90578 | ||
Hey Brother, Glad things are working out but I have a question, and please forgive me if you find it offensive, but you keep saying your partner, and when you say this are you speaking of your wife? or is this someone you are living with or just what do you mean by the word "partner"? |
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4 | Partner? | Matthew | gab | 90588 | ||
Hi, No offense taken at all. Before I posted the question from my first original post. I didnt know what term to use wether to use partner, girl friend, courting. I just didnt know what to use. She is not my wife and we do not live together. But I just used the word partner to indicate this is the lady in waiting. If you read my first orignal post you will realise that it indicates(my apologies on the confusion)she is not my partner as in wife or do we live together. My gratitude to the other brethren that posted their advice through the Word of GOD. Glad I didnt confuse them. Again my sincere apologies on any confusion regards, gab |
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