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1 | handling relationships as a Christian | Matthew | gab | 85942 | ||
Hi CurtMan, Thanks for taking time to reply me. As this is very important to me. My partner was wonderful before she met this woman. I really what I say that she was very diligent in the things of God. I just dont understand how someone can change in a space of a few months after being so wonderful most of the time in our relationship. I dont know wether this is a battle I Have to pray against so has to win her soul/salvation back(i wont deny a minute that I dont still want her back because I do). This woman is also the only friend she has because all her other friends have always taken advantage of her. I know how kind hearted my partner is and I have also known that she is very easily influenced beacsue im the only guy she's been with thats never taken advantage of her. But since this aquintace started with her and this woman and also things have rapidly changed its like she doesnt know God anymore. I would have found it easy to just count it as the woman not for me if she hadnt been so caring towards me before she met this woman. And I mean it when I say my Partner has done so much for me, our church and our lives. I dont know what to do? I have tried to make her come down and see our pastor and I still can but I want her to be the one to make the move for once? regards, gab |
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2 | handling relationships as a Christian | Matthew | TheCurtMan | 86061 | ||
Dear Gab, Trust me when I say I know how you feel. You must now handle this situation in a mature christian fashion. You pray about the situation. God is the only one who have the answers and the ability to heal your hurt. Just know that His soultion may not meet your expectations. Have you taken the time to read Matt. 13:1-23?? It's a parable about three soils. The explination to this parable is founded in v.18-23. Within the explanation, you will probable discover the reason why your girlfriend is acting the way she is. My prayers will be with you. The CurtMan |
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3 | handling relationships as a Christian | Matthew | gab | 86087 | ||
Hi CurtMan, I have read it and I understand. I really wanted to help my partner through this but I realised I was trying to use my own strength and abilities instead of living it all to GOD. I actaully spoke to my partner again and she has started drinking and getting drunk and going out clubbing again(with that woman) like we both used to be before. She said she had no feelings for me anymore(the reason I dont know) I have made up my mind to leave her and put her in my prayers. But I have to say I really wanted GOD to turn her back around to how devoted she was before. My relationship before my partner now ended up in a breakup as well but I was deep in world then(I didnt know Jesus then). And I got over that quite easily by just looking for other woman and sleeping around. That was when I met this partner in which in which we both gave our lives to Christ becase we found out that we both had a lot in common and someone showed us Jesus Christ was the answer. I just feel disappointed and almost feel responsible for the way she has back sliding after a year and half of being devoted to GOD. I really felt attached together because we both started the same way in world, gave our lives to GOD together and the world just swifted her by assigning that woman on her. I am going to stay single for a while and pray to our Master Jesus Christ to show me the way to seek him deeper and to also strengthen me and keep me away from the world. May GOD in is infinite mercy bless and strengthen us(and anyone else in the world going through the same problem) through is beloved blessed Son our LORD Jesus Christ. Amen regards, gab |
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4 | handling relationships as a Christian | Matthew | TheCurtMan | 86234 | ||
Hey Gab, There is this story in the bible about a women that lost her son to injustice. She went to the King because she wanted justice. She wanted him deal with the matter. The King kinda paid her no mind at first, so she kept going back, again; and again; and again. Finally the King gave this women what she wanted just so she would leave him alone in the matter. You ever tried that with God?? Keep your partner lifted up in prayer. CONSISTENTLY. The Lord wills that none should perish, so keep praying for her salvation, or her return to the Lord, and you might be surprise at the results, God has the tendicy of going over and above our expectations on occasions. |
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