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1 | Premarital sex-- did I make a mistake? | Bible general Archive 4 | quiet_one | 227258 | ||
Okay, I'm sorry to be a bother. Please no hate or claiming I'm going to hell or something... If I've made a mistake and I've hurt God, I'll repent. I most likely sound stupid and childish. I'm not sure how to feel or what to think. I'm just a teenager and I'm lost. I don't need serious judgement... Just some insight. Mercy, please. Anyway, I've got a boyfriend. I'm 18, he's 20. I've been with him for almost three years. We waited two and a half years to have sex. It happened a few more times and then I put a stop to it because I dont know how God feels about me and him, and I don't want to hurt him. Ive always been a serious believer, did well when I was in highschool, my friends look up to me as a good Christian and "the good girl". This boy and I fully intend to marry. We were each others "firsts" and he's the first boy I ever kissed. I've never done any drugs or alcohol, I haven't even seen a rated "R" movie. The most trouble Ive ever been in was detention for being late to school too many times. I swear, I'm a good girl. Our families hate each other and there is no way they would support our marriage right now... Or ever, really. I feel horrible for doing it if it's wrong. But is it wrong if he's the only person who will ever know me this way? Was God only talking to promiscuous people who didn't love each other? Does He see that we want marriage and happiness and to raise children to live like him? If it is wrong and I repent and continue to wait until marriage, will He forgive me, or is it too late and I'm condemned? Help, please. If someone answers.... Thank you. I need it. |
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2 | Premarital sex-- did I make a mistake? | Bible general Archive 4 | stjohn | 227259 | ||
Dear Quite One, Welcome to the Forum! First of all, It needs to be said that, this type of question is not in the order of those that pertain to bible study, and that is the desired intention of our gracious host, The Lockman Foundation. And, out of respect for them and the clear mandate set forth in the Terms of use, that we all agreed to when we signed on to the Study Bible Forum; We seldom answer these types of questions. They are usually avoided. But, having said that; we are not immune to compassion, and since you are asking from a Christian standpoint, wanting to know what God thinks and, what His Holy Word says about your situation. I will say this... I believe that you have done the right thing by putting a stop to it. And I believe you two should get married as soon as posable, and may God bless your marriage! And, of course God will forgive you, (John 6:37-40, John 10:27-30) and of course we do too! God bless you, my dear, and God bless your family. -John p.s Please, read your Bible! :-) |
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