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1 | Oral sex between husband and wife | Song of Solomon | aaronlaw | 35745 | ||
1. Could husband and wife orally stimulate each other before having sex? |
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2 | Oral sex between husband and wife | Song of Solomon | KaleoWaYesu | 106787 | ||
There is no scriptural 'yes or no' to this. But if you read Song of Solomons in light of your question, you may be biased to a 'yes'. But all things matrimonial must be tempered within a loving relationship and must be done in agreement, not in selfishness. Alot is spoken concerning conduct outside of marriage settings, mostly against indulging in sex before marriage, but precious little is written on what is permisible or not within matrimony. It is as if room to become 'one' has been created. I beleive this 'becoming' one is done over time and not done only when one says 'I DO'. I also beleive that the becoming one, is mainly welded together through the act of holy matrimony or sex, whereby couples explore one another over time until they have 'become one' in everything. Paul exhorts wives to submit to their husbands in the Lord and husbands to love their wives. Also he counsels married people not deny one another in matters of sex except by mutual consent. Read 1 Cor 7, it places other related things in perspective. At 14 years in the art of 'becoming one', I consider myself a teen, still exploring. May be older folks in this area may shade more light... I hope this helps though. Andy |
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3 | Oral sex between husband and wife | Song of Solomon | Aixen7z4 | 106789 | ||
If there is no scriptural answer, it might be suggested that the matter not be discussed on an Bible forum. If is not of general interest, but a private matter, it might be suggested that it not be discussed on any open forum. A couple may decide such an issue between themselves or take it to a counselor. This is a personal opinion, for which I may be spanked, and this is not my forum. But I believe some matters must be kept private. I recommend this forum even to my patients, but I am embarrassed to see the present topic openly discussed. It has been dormant for some time and I suggest, respectfully, that it should remain so. |
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4 | Oral sex between husband and wife | Song of Solomon | KaleoWaYesu | 106919 | ||
Agreed, however be prepared to give answers to questions that will arise from time to time in respect of sxuality as documented in scripture. Some of which can be termed embarassing. My personal view is, if God allowed them to be put in the bible, then surely He must have desired us to discuss them in any forum. Otherwise, I totaly am in agreement with you. What happens in couples bedrooms is between them and their Lord. Seasons greetings. Andy. |
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5 | Oral sex between husband and wife | Song of Solomon | Hank | 106922 | ||
"What happens in couples' bedrooms is between them and their Lord." ..... A carte blanche approach such as this, it seems to me, opens up a Pandora's box. Even between a husband and his wife aberrant sexual behavior is easily possible. A doctrine of laissez faire in these matters becomes in effect a de facto sanction of such acts of human sexual perversion as sodomy, sadism and masochism, all of which can be practiced between a husband and his wife, but that does not make them any less perverted. I've been married over 44 years and I certainly do not endorse an anything-goes policy in the marital bedroom. Marriage is a sacred bond, instituted by God Himself, and should be viewed as sacred, in the bedroom and out. --Hank | ||||||