Subject: They are married,is it sin to have oral? |
Bible Note: stjohn: As I read this thread I find it rather amusing and somewhat discouraging. So I will attempt to say why I make the above statements. If sex is made for just having children, then when a couple gets beyond the age of being able to conceive should they stop having a loving union? Heck, then what about a wife has a had her reproductive organs removed? Nothing says I love your like loving each other sexually! Do I hear an amen? I am an an older Christian, married male, and my wife is just about the same, except 4 years younger. I am positive we are not living or commiting sin while having a loving time of sexual pleasure. Having been a pastor I have never had a couple ask me before marriage what was acceptable sexual practices. I have when a few men came to ask was it wrong to ask their wife to have oral sex. I have never had a wonam come to ask such a question. This is a a question that seems to being real differences of opinion from couple to couple, and it needs to stay as a couples choice. In all of Scripture oral pleasuring each other is not addressed. I am amused that this thread has generated such interest and so many posts. When there are posts that genuinely deserve a whole lot of responses, often answers are few. I think because we as Christians do have a normal God given desire and interest sexual love with our wives. Personally, I doubt many couples when making love can think about God in bed with them. That thought has never occured to me at least. Hope we can move on to better topics now. justme |