Subject: They are married,is it sin to have oral? |
Bible Note: Hello stj, First of all let me say I appreciate your participation on the forum. While I don't agree with everything you write, it's nice to have a fresh "voice" posting regularly. And by the way, there are very few who I do agree with everything they write and that's only because I haven't yet read the thing that I and they will disagree on, so no offense I hope. Regarding your declaration, however, that "In no way is sex in the marriage bed sin" I would have to start there with disagreement in your most recent post. That said, I will simply refer you back to brother Tim's post. I'm sure if I were to force sex on my wife she would believe it to be sin and so would God according to His word. I would have violated not only the vows of marriage, but the principals set forth in Scripture concerning a husbands responsibilities to his wife (see Eph chapter 5) Another point that requires redirection is the statement that "But God, after all, invented sex for one reason; procreation." This argument is a misrepresentation of Scripture (please read the entirety of Song of Solomon). To be sure, among the blessings of marriage is the enjoyment a husband and wife find in the physical enjoyment of one another. Furthermore, your comment seems to contradict your later statement " The union of a loving couple, is one of God's most beautiful creations, and where man and woman are made one physically. and adds to spiritual union as well." I do, by the way, fully agree with that statement. Hope this is helpful, God Bless, Jeff |