Subject: Anything wrong with dating? |
Bible Note: I agree that the American custom of dating is often dangerous and can invite danger into an otherwise strong relationship. But, I would watch your condemnation of those who completely trust their teenagers. Being one myself, I'm obviously slightly biased, but I'd like to share from a teenager's prespective. My parent's completely trust me, and my girlfriend and I have had no problems with Satan in our four months of dating. The complete trust has allowed me to feel their support and helped me accept responsibility. I think they fundamentally understand that they cannot stop me from making my own choices, and by encouraging and advising those, they can have a greater impact than restricting me from making them. On the other hand, I've heard from some (three immediately come to mind) teenage friends who say that the lack of trust creates a desire to rebel. Their parents checking on them constantly and restricting them has encouraged the "Russian Roulette" dating among them. So, for those who look for the best method of raising and nurturing their teens, I would say trust is good, though few can handle complete trust. |