Bible Question (short): Divorce/Marriage |
Question (full): Thank you Steve Searcher Serenetime for the welcome and your input. In answer to Serentine's question, the situation demand for divorce is very circumstantial. The wife and believer is in a position as breadwinner in the home definately not by choice 75 percent income the husband unbeliver received a career opportunity which required relocation the wife supported the acceptance on the basis the family would be together relocated to another country and the position for the wife fell through as the prospective employer was diagnosed with Leukemia He is now on his road to recovery and learning about the Lord. The husband would not sacrifice lifestyle and allow the wife to accept a position with a lower income due to the husbands inability to look after the children and his frustation hence demand for a divorce the children were reunited with the Mother. The Mother is deeply aware of Covenant of Marriage and would like to honour the Lord by meeting the comittment. This is very difficault as the husband persecutes the wife with unjustified and false allegations of "adultery" secular psychologist says that the reason therfore is "projection" because of the husband's Mothers conduct in her two marriages. The husbands parents were divorced and the Mother relayed ALL the gory details referring to the Father in a derogatory manner and with malice for the past sixteen years. The Father was cold and uncaring and terminated his relationship with the children. I married this man on a vision the lord gave me.. of a man He would restore, this vision serves to encourage me and I know that "He is capable of doing immeasurably more than I can think or imagine" and "No plan of His is Thwarted". I suppose I was being pedantic in my approach, fact is my husband has left and says there is no possibility of reconciliation YET he will not proceed with legal action and I do not understand this situation at all. If I proceed is it a mere formality of what he has begun or should he follow through with his threats ? This man has so much potential in every walk of life but is hindered by parental hurts that have been cruel and deep and is desperate for healing. I trist that I am using this forum appropriately and if not it is unintentional. This serves as a response to Serenetimes question. I hope this message is peceived as intended as I cannot submit with punctuation ??!! Thank you and BLESS you, for your kindness and compassion in sharing with one in need. |
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