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NASB | Proverbs 31:10 ¶ An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels. |
AMPLIFIED 2015 | Proverbs 31:10 ¶ An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls. [Prov 12:4; 18:22; 19:14] |
Bible Question: Can anyone enlighten regarding the application of Proverbs 31 regarding the virtuous woman? I wonder how it applies in modern times? She is no longer the fulltime homemaker but has entered the working world of man. How to excel as a career woman and yet not threaten the love of her life for being the intelligent, wise, virtuous partner of his life? |
Bible Answer: v17 She cares for herself, note this passage is really two references, first "She girds herself with strength" her spirit is strong, she seeks and maintains a constant relationship with the LORD and then she "And strengthens her arms." she cares for herself physically v18 A qualification: Here I suspect that my interpretation is likely influenced by my experiences in the world, but I read this as this Prov. 31 woman being one of strong self love, strong self-esteem if you will as she knows that not only is the fruit of her hands good but she herself is good and worthy of honor. Her lamp not going out by not night I read as her willingness to spend "quality" time with her husband v19 again, an inclination to work with her hands in two ways, one to do the work that is less strenuous and more meticulous (holds the spindle) while at the same time not shunning the more arduous tasks (stretches out her hands to the distaff) v20 she has a compassionate heart, despite all the work she does she is still inclined to share with others less fortunate, her experiences in the world have not left her hard hearted and bitter v21-22 with all else: working, caring for the household and husband can the modern working woman also make sure her family is ready for the hard times? And, simultaneously make sure her clothing is attractive, comfortable and pleasing to behold? v23 First off her husband would have to be of some merit to have such a position and one would wonder why this line is mentioned in a text about a "virtuous wife?" I suspect because no man can achieve such merit unless a few things are true first, his household is in order such would include his financial affairs, and the state of his family (is that possible without a Prov. 31 wife?); secondly he has the support of his wife she helps keep appointments, tends to health and meets his needs and joins him in worship and devotions so the man the public sees is one of God-given self assuredness, worthy of being "known in the gates" and a seat among the elders v24 I submit this portion of the text supports and confirms that the Prov 31 wife has income activity from outside the household v25 nothing in her actions or comportment implies anything less than honorable, no lunches or late night work sessions that could raise an eyebrow; no after-work respites with the "girls from the office" that could cause concern... v26 This should not be exclusive to women nor to anyone from any point in time... v27 Yes, we know you work hard but what's going on at home right now? Do you know? and if idleness is an option for any working wife/mother then your issue is greater than being concerned about meeting the tenets of Prov. 31 v28-29 The question is not "Where is mommy today?" nor is it "Is mommy working late again?" Enough said... v30 Grace and appeal is nice but useless in the long run unless a real relationship with the LORD is in place. v31 The Prov. 31 woman must benefit from her own labor, such will be obvious to all who see and part of that benefit will be the praise of those over the city "How to excel as a career woman and yet not threaten the love of her life for being the intelligent, wise, virtuous partner of his life?" In light of the above analysis I will readily admit that such may be a "tough row to hoe" and let's be real: it may not be possible at all. In such a case perhaps a reassessment of family priorities is in order. But no matter what let all you do be to the Glory of GOD. |