Bible Question: I have reason to believe my wife is cursed, she is mean, bitter and very argumenitive and has recently been under care for depression. Other than prayer and supplication what can I do to help her? |
Bible Answer: Blessings to you iamahearer, I'm praying that you are also a doer. Eph. 5:25-33 shows us how we are to Love our wives. To me the key words here is "to lay down (or give) our lives for them, even as Christ gave himself for the church", verse 25. As you describe your wife, to me that sounds like a very common situation. However you don't mention if your wife is born-again or (saved). You are the authority figure (The Head) in her life, depression does not come from God, agree? We are to protect our wives, even from attacks from our enemy the devil, protect her and bind him up in Jesus name, depression must submitt to the name of Jesus. Look, God has done everything he is going to do for us, Jesus destroyed the works of the devil and gave us back the authority that the devil stoled from Adam, we are to exercise that authority. Her other promblems (as you say), and I'm just guessing here, seems to be deep rooted from her past, but never the lest, you made a vow to love her for life. Gensis 2:24 says that we are to "CLEAVE", Meaning: to cling, stick, stay close, cleave, keep close, stick to, stick with, follow closely, join to, overtake, catch, take the time to deal with her anger and bitterness, give her the freedom she needs to explain to you why she feels this way. Maybe if you look at your own life, as I did mine, and how God took the time to work with us in order for our lives to turn around, because he LOVED us that much and I'm sure you love your wife, or you wouldn't take the time to present it. So what can you do to help her? Show her that you are willing to do "WHATEVER IT TAKES" to see her through, God already knows the situation (HE Loves her) and he will Honor your actions and answer your prayers! Finally my brother I come in agreement with you and join in with prayer you for the miracle you need. There are a lot of brothers and sisters on this forum that will support you with clear directions and prayer. Keep in touch, I too have been there. He Is The 1 |