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1 | Is it wrong to have a passionate kiss? | 1 Thess 4:5 | terrib | 112148 | ||
Dear Tator Bug, I say the following in love: Because you have brought this subject up, I see that you already know the answer and are looking for some justification. You say, “it’s something we can’t help.” Yes, you can! You say, “WE can’t help.” By your passionate kiss are you instigating the passion? And is your boyfriend thereby responding to your passion? Be aware in some men it does not take much to start an arousal. And the flesh loves to conform to its natural instincts. And God has warned us about this: Jam 1:14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Jam 1:15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death. The lust, or natural forces, of the flesh is not a plaything. If both of you want to be reverent in the Face of God, STOP! This situation has been compared to a rollercoaster. Once the cars get over the FIRST hill the ride is not over until it reaches its destiny, the end, as the epistle by James states. For your future protection, I would make a pack, promise, with your boyfriend, that since you have this feeling and are in doubt, to refrain from this until you get married. It is better to be single than burn if he does not go along with you. For not all men can contain as Paul explains: (1Co 7:9 KJV) But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. You know the answer. Don’t make your boyfriend stumble. terrib |
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2 | Is it wrong to have a passionate kiss? | 1 Thess 4:5 | justme | 112152 | ||
Terrib: After reading your profile I have to give you "ten points" for the good advice. There is several things about this couple we don't know. How old they are, are these two Christians, and if they are old enough to marry and have the where with all to marry are they planning a wedding soon? I find without more details we are correct in a general answer, but with more information specfic concerns can better be closer addressed. I like your use of Scripture to give with your advice. I also welcome you to the forum! God bless. justme |
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3 | Is it wrong to have a passionate kiss? | 1 Thess 4:5 | terrib | 112167 | ||
Dear Justme, I appreciate your words. In this kind of situation we can only go by what the questioner says. I try to listen to what they are actually saying and try to respond to what God has told me or what I have experienced in my own life. We ALL know what power the flesh can have over us and we know what we have to do to overcome it. If a person is so inclined to ask questions on this forum we must realize that they are not here by accident. God has sent them here. If any of us can help, it is our duty to lead them in the direction that God commands. If we are silent the judgement could come back on us. God will bless you also, terrib |
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