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1 | wrong to see nudity if has no affect? | Col 3:2 | Natie | 130637 | ||
I got into an argument with my boyfriend the other day about watching movies with nudity in it. He owns a few movies where there is only about 1 or two scenes with nudity. I told him that this makes me feel uncomfortable because even though it does not "turn him on" (he told me it doesn't and I believe him) he is still putting those images into his head. I brought up Colossians 3:2 "set your minds on things above, not on earthly things." He still argues that if these scenes are not turning him on then there is nothing wrong with him watching them. But I know that if we get married and I become his wife, there is no way I would ever want him to see another womans naked body. Whether it turns him on or not, it makes me uncomfortable, and out of love for me (or his wife one day) he should naturally want to stop his actions that are making his wife uncomfortable. I told him this and he brought up the issue of controlling one another. He said that he wont let his wife control him because she has a problem. I said it is not a matter of controlling but a matter of me going to him and telling him something that is hurting me and me trusting that his response will be loving and wanting to help me. Am I wrong or is he wrong or what? I really need help with this. Am I taking the bible out of context? Help me please! Thank you | ||||||
2 | wrong to see nudity if has no affect? | Col 3:2 | ROGER459 | 130657 | ||
(2Peter 2:14) Having eyes full of adultery, and that cannot cease from sin; beguiling unstable souls: an heart they have exercised with covetous practices; cursed children: AND (Job 31:1) I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid? Perhaps you need a New Boyfriend? Even a Christian One, who obeys the Word of God, and does not make License of the Word of God? Do you think that he will change once you are married? I think NOT! Thank you! |
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3 | wrong to see nudity if has no affect? | Col 3:2 | Natie | 130958 | ||
Thank you for your response. Those verses will help. | ||||||