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1 | How can I deal with this child in love? | Eph 4:1 | angelsofGod | 159526 | ||
I have a step-daughter and my husband and I had her for about 9mths.There is alot of things goings on with this child.Her mother got shot and killed last December, she has been molested and she lies all the time and I can't trust her @ all.I am having a difficult time with her @ this time because anything she says is always questionable because she lies so much.How can I deal with her without getting fleshly involve in wanting to kick her out of the house because I can't stand her"BOLD FACE" lies to me and my her dad. | ||||||
2 | How can I deal with this child in love? | Eph 4:1 | Bronx | 159527 | ||
Do you have a Sister or Brother near by, a grand Dad, and Uncle, Aunt near by that you may have noticed she is showing confidence and trust in Kids are like that nowadays they love and respect their Aunts and Uncles is she hanging out with the wrong crowds you say step daughter hey i'm not sure step sons and daughters ever get to the point you would like them to get too, to love you like you were their real mother and father but hey there is a bridge of trust and respect that can be built between you both She sure has been through alot, I feel for her Their is Christian Counseling if you can get her there No kicking out! search for it, the answer is there Pray about it, put yourself in her shoes imagine all she has been through, its alot Confusion is not from above patience and love is Blessings to you and your family |
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3 | How can I deal with this child in love? | Eph 4:1 | angelsofGod | 159533 | ||
I have been praying about this WHOLE THING and it is not easy at all.I have been showing her nothing but love and she still feels she have to lie about everything to the point that I feel angry towards her.She have done something that was very "defiance" in OUR home and not APPROVED and it was very FILTHY.I WON'T STAND FOR IT!!! I pray that God will continue to do something through her and to her.I really need strength to handle this because I have 3 little girls of my own and they see all of that she is doing. | ||||||
4 | How can I deal with this child in love? | Eph 4:1 | mark d seyler | 159538 | ||
Hi AngelsofGod, This situation you've described is among the most difficult that any of us ever face. You will need to be very close to God to not only endure, but to overcome. The good news is that is is possible to overcome, to bring this child to normalcy. First, stand on the promise of God: Phil 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." It is possible to survive this intact, with your family intact. As you already know, pray: Phil 4:6 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. The first, most important thing, is to maintain your walk with God. Daily prayer, Bible reading, regular church and fellowship, family prayer and devotions, all of these things will keep you strong in the Lord. Keep your focus on God, and not centered on your stepdaughter's behaviours. You are to be controlled by God, not this child. I believe that it would be extremely valuable to you to meet with other Christians who are dealing with the same issues. Let the body of Christ minister to you, and you also will minister to them. Look for support groups at your church, and there is none available, other churches. I do not know if these people are in your area, but perhaps they may be able to help: www.parentproject.com. May God bless you and uphold you. Jesus dearly loves this little girl, and I will also pray that He will heal her hurt and anger and fear. Love in Christ, Mark Please keep in touch if you wish, I will continue to lift you up in prayer. markdseyler@yahoo.com |
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5 | How can I deal with this child in love? | Eph 4:1 | angelsofGod | 159559 | ||
Hi Markdseyler! I appreciate the encouraging words and uplifting words from the WORD.I tell you I have never and I mean never in my life have ever been faced with such a Trial such as this because this took the cake.You are right I can do all things through Christ that strengtheth me because all things is possible through Christ.I really appreciate the ENCOURAGING WORDS OF WISDOM that you gave me that was sent from God.The sad thing about this situation is that she knows that she is enticed by the Devil and I told her that she has to want to be delivered from the hands of the adversary and DENOUNCE it totally.I had a lonnnnnnnnng talk with her about how the enemy works and how God loves her so much that he took her away from that place she once lived to be free of the spirits that has her in bondage.I tell you it isnt easy because the enemy lay dormant and try to make us feel she is okay when she really not and I see it. |
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