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1 | biblical role of father with children | 2 Cor 6:4 | cjdbcharm | 230613 | ||
what is the role of a father even if he remarried. i have 2 children out of wedlock, the father and i never married, the custody battle has been endless, our children are confused and tired and just want to come home with me, i have had difficulties being a single mom, and have not remarried. is it the fathers role to provide, but respect me, and stop trying to take them from me. his wife even claims them on her welfare for foodstamps and left me in my struggles with nothing. as a man of god, please tell me his role and what verse can i provide | ||||||
2 | biblical role of father with children | 2 Cor 6:4 | Bill Richardson | 230614 | ||
Sadly there's not a whole lot in God's Word to deal with your specific situation with the fact you and the father were never married. I'm not saying you're completely on your own without any guidance from God but it's VERY difficult to provide counseling especially over the internet without getting both sides of the story. I can only suggest you get counseling from some professional christian counselor and hopefully get the father in the room with you. It does seem rather unfair that he and his wife are getting the foodstamps if indeed you have primary custody of the kids. My son is facing the very same problem with his ex-wife. It's a very harsh and Godless world of darkness and sinful people in which we live. I'll be praying for you and your kids as I'm praying for my own grandkids. Go with God in all things. Bill |
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3 | biblical role of father with children | 2 Cor 6:4 | cjdbcharm | 230622 | ||
Thank you for responding, no we were never married and we have shared custody where my children are placed in 2 separate homes, and yes it is a very long story. i know God is with me and i need to trust him only... my heart has been broken for 15 years concerning my sons and i just want to give up and just let them be with their dad, he is a great dad, but very cruel in respecting me, very hard to explain, but thank you.. and thank you for yor prayer! | ||||||
4 | biblical role of father with children | 2 Cor 6:4 | Bill Richardson | 230624 | ||
My heart goes out to all good, Godly single parents. "There but by the Grace of God, go I." I don't know what my life would have been without my wife but it definitely would not have been good. My only caution to you about "giving up" to this man is this. If he doesn't give you the respect you've clearly earned in rearing these boys after all this time, I doubt he's going to do a good job of teaching them and providing a good example to them in this regard. I would suggest you stay involved in their lives and try to give them balance as it already sounds like their step mother is a little too much on his side. Still praying for you and may God bless your sons. Bill |
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