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1 | How do I let go and still love??? | 1 Cor 7:17 | Blessed and Highly Favored | 191723 | ||
ok this is an addition to my previous question..how do I let go of someone that I love so much without having feelings of anger, sadness, loneliness, and unappreciation w/in me?? what scriptures can I read to help me in my daily walk during this rough battle...especially when there's a child in the picture???? | ||||||
2 | How do I let go and still love??? | 1 Cor 7:17 | Parable | 191733 | ||
The most recent research shows that when possible, and when there are no immediate hazards to the child, the best possible arrangements, under these circumstances, are what they call "equal parenting". This means the child spends, on average, an equal amount of time with each parent. Of course this is not the ideal God had in mind, but it avoids the problems of having "weekend dad" who pretty much just gets to have fun with kids, while mom has to take care of them when they're sick, help them with homework, be the disciplinarian, etc, etc, etc. (Of course, it could be the other way around, with the dad having primary custody, but the point is the same.) This requires each parent to grant the other person the authority to parent as they see fit, so the child can have an authentic relationship with both parents. It also provides each parent "time with" and "time off", so they can equally share the work of raising their kids. The biblical standards for family are that the child should honor the parents (Exodus 20:12) and the parents should adhere to Ephesian 6:4 "...do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." As for the best thing you can do for your kids, avoid ever saying anything negative to them about the other parent, and work to become a healthy, vibrant person in your own right, so they may see a good example of how to live under adversity. This involves forgiving the other person, avoiding the mistakes people so often make, and doing the right things to build a new life. Above all, put your faith in the Lord to bring you through this. The only way out is through, and remember "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18 |
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