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1 | should I marry | Matt 6:33 | daneiyella | 145092 | ||
I thank you all for your answers to my question, and back to the corinthians 6 I was refering to that verse. Her father and I were only together for three months when I concieved. I had backsliden from the Lord and messed up. I do love him and he is a christian. I want to Marry him to please the Lord and to offer her a good life by doing the right thing. I have prayed daily about this issue and I don't know. some days I feel like go for it and others I am lost. I wanted some biblical answers and I got them. We are no longer sexual active and I am not doing this for a free ticket to sex but to provide her with a father and a family that is not seperated. I was rasied with a mother who was single and step parents and I sure don't want her to go thru that. I need guidence and I will seek more from my pastor, but if you have anything to add go ahead. I will enjoy hearing something. thanks unmarried |
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2 | should I marry | Matt 6:33 | Cry Holy | 145093 | ||
First sweetheart, I understand what you are saying about pleasing the Lord and that is Wonderful, but while doing that make sure that He will truly be pleased if you marry this man. You may love Him, and realize that some things are lawful, but not always expedient. It does say it is better to marry than to burn, but also realize that is if you cannot keep your body under control. I have been a single mother for the last 4 years. I dated Christian men that believed in the Lord, but did not have Him as Lord over their lives. This created a problem, because when I need steadfast and unmoveable faith, and someone to be stronger than me spiritually, I did not have that. I had to cut him off. I know and realize at the age of 26h, that any man that will cause you to compromise your relationship with God, is not Gods best. Please dont ever marry for children, or because you feel like it is the right thing to do. You want to make sure that the man loves you as Christ loves the church, and that he would give up anything for you, treat you like a queen, a provider, man don not work he doesnt eat, and that He will be a proper father to his child. If He does not love you unconditionally, and Love God with all His heart first, then some problems will arise, more often than few. When I fully submitted to God, and cut all cords with any exboyfriends, and pressed into God with all my heart, The man at the church that I would not look at for 2 years, was who God prepped and groomed just for me. Everything I prayed for spiritually he had. He has what I need as a woman of God, and to be able to do Gods perfect will. I would not look at him at first because He is shorter than me, and a little on the healthy side, but you know, all that does not matter anymore, when you KNOW that the person God has sent you is the will of God. HE is a provider, has no children, and treats my daughter as His own, way before we ever got togethr. He is not perverted, but he is a humble man of God in action word and deed. Everything I need in a man of God. He is full of the Holy Ghost and power. And I can submit to him because He submits to God. I had backslid formerly and done a lot of things that was not pleasing to God, but that did not stop God, when my heart became right with him, to bless me fully. God will do exceedingly, abundantly, above all that you could ever ask or think, when you totally lean and depend on Him. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, His way of doing things, and all these things shall be added unto you. One main thing, you do not want worldly desires being manifested in your life, you want God's desires for your life. Those things that He has called you to, will not fail you. You can do it as a single mother if you chose to, and do it successfully. Jesus is your husband, father, friend, and all, until God sends that Man of God into your life. Dont settle for less than God's best. Listen to the wisdom that God gives you through your Pastor, and do not compromise the word of God, no matter wht comes up. God knew that you were going to have a baby, yet in still, he has a great purpose for your life. And as far as what you went through in the past with step parents, keep it in the past. God is your father, and He is more than able to provide you with a husband that will be a 100 percent father to your child. God will definitely take care of that... be blessed |
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