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1 | Is 1 free if divorce not due 2 adultery? | Matt 19:9 | MJH | 144172 | ||
Searcher56 – (I know it is long, but I tried real hard, so forgive me) It’s been awhile, so I will try to tackle this one and see where it goes. :-) I’m going to deal with Luke 16:18 here for reasons that make sense below. Also, I will provide some context, some Greek verb stuff, and THEN answer your question. Luk 16:18 "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.” Divorce was one of the 8 great debates of the first century, thus the reason He is asked the question (Matt. 19:3). The 2 schools of thought were Hillel and Shammai. Jesus sides 7 times with Hillel and 1 time with Shammai. With divorce Jesus agreed with Shammai. (Hillel said you could divorce for “burnt toast.”) It is, of course, important to value the context, which I know you all know I bring up a lot. Jesus did not equate divorce and remarriage with adultery, as is often thought. Prohibiting divorce would abrogate the Torah passage Deut. 24:1-2. Jesus was intent on interpreting the Torah properly, but he did not want to destroy it. Another context can be seen in the Mishnah (Sotah 5.1) where a woman who is divorced because of an adulterous relationship is not permitted to marry the man with whom she had an affair. (Most of the Mishnah was taught before and during Jesus’ time, but not all.) - Context is used here NOT to change Jesus words or their meaning, but to help see the world as it was during the time he said these words. - Divorce for the SAKE of remarriage was therefore also adultery. When we look at the Luke 16:18, the verbs “divorce” and “marry” are in the present tense. (The parallel in Mark 10:11 put them in the subjective mood.” (see note below). Also, the conjunction “and” was often intended to express purpose. Re-wording the translation of the Greek into English to better capture the original meaning might be, “Every one who divorces his wife [in order] to marry another commits adultery.” “In light of the Mishnah passage in Sotah, if a man marries a woman who obtained a divorce merely for the sake of her second marriage, then it is considered adultery. Divorce is not adultery” and neither is remarriage. (see note below) Answer to your question. Divorce is allowed, but not divorce simply for the sake of convinces, whether that be to marry another or simply to avoid responsibility. Divorce for the sake of abuse, adultery, and any other things that fit under the term “unfaithfulness” is Biblically okay. If a spouse divorces un-Lawfully, then their partner is made free and permitted to remarry without committing adultery. (1Co 7:15 “But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.”) I understand that you said that “Unbelief” is not a part of the issue in your stated situation, but I think the “rule” here can still be applied. It was not the choice of the innocent partner to divorce, so if their spouse acts in an unbelieving manner by divorcing for illegitimate reasons, the spouse who is left is free (not enslaved.) Luke 16:18b “He who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.” This is the same idea only this time the woman is divorcing. So if a woman was divorced by her husband because her husband wanted another woman or simply because he didn’t liker her or she “burnt his toast”, then she would be free to re-marry. But if she divorced for the reason to marry another, then to marry her would be adultery. These things can get very complicated and so in the end we need to use our understanding of scripture on a WHOLE and apply it. We ought not to take one statement within the text and try to make situations fit, and thereby nullify other commands in the process. This was the BIG mistake of the Pharisees. Example: they took the Sabbath laws separate from the rest of the Torah, and applied them. They were correct in the letter of the one command, but wrong in interpreting the Torah as a whole. Jesus corrected them on this, and “loved His neighbor” by healing on the Sabbath. We too can take divorce laws out of the text and apply them to the letter correctly, but actually be misinterpreting the text on a whole at the same time. MJH |
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2 | Is 1 free if divorce not due 2 adultery? | Matt 19:9 | kalos | 144441 | ||
Divorce and Remarriage 'Question: 'What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? 'Answer: 'Good, conservative Bible students and scholars come to very different conclusions on this issue. Speaking from the standpoint of those who want to follow the Bible, two of the more prominent positions are: (1) There is no basis for divorce under any circumstances and to remarry is to live in adultery, and (2) God allows divorce and remarriage for three conditions: (a) adultery, (b) desertion of a believing spouse by an unbelieving spouse, and (c) if a person becomes saved after they were divorced because when they accept Christ they are beginning life anew. Obviously, this is just a very brief summary and there are many other issues involved in the matter of divorce and remarriage. 'Anyone facing divorce personally or as a church leader certainly needs to do some very intense study and research on their own by reading a number of books that deal with the divorce issue, but deal with it from a study of the Bible. This way, while receiving a variety of different perspectives, it will provide a chance to evaluate them and prayerfully consider the issues before the Lord. 'There are many books written on this subject and a good bookstore can help, but here are a couple of titles I’d recommend: '(1) Divorce by John Murray, The Presbyterian and Reformed Publishing Co., 1961. This book could be out of print, but might be found in a church or Bible school library (college or seminary). Amazon also can find out of print books at www.amazon.com. '(2) The Right To Remarry by Dwight Hervey Small, Fleming H. Revell Co., 1975. 'You might check out your local Bible book store or check CBD at www.christianbook.com or Amazon Books at www.amazon.com . There are many more recent books on this issue that go into great detail, but I think reading through at least two or three books, not just one, is the best approach. 'Another excellent resource on this subject is the Biblical Divorce and Remarriage web site at http://www.tyndale.cam.ac.uk/brewer/divorce.htm. 'I would caution anyone to take their time and never rush into a relationship and remarriage. One thing is sure. God hates divorce and desires reconciliation, but realistically, that is not always possible. Remember though, God is able to do things beyond what we are even able to ask or think. The problem is people want what they want and they want it now! They give up hope and start looking for an excuse to move ahead with their own plans and desires. So research, study, and pray.' ____________________ http://www.bible.org/qatopic.asp (This question and answer appears under "Q[ampersand]A Topic: Marriage".) |
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