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1 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Jeshuafreak | 52868 | ||
It goes too far when either of you, either the husband or the wife, finds the act uncomfortable or wrong. One partner should not make the other do something they don't want to do. Otherwise anything goes in marriage. Between only the two of you of course, we can't invite anybody else into our marriage. This includes pornography, this is a form of adultry of the heart. ****** Hebrews 13:4Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. |
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2 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Hank | 52871 | ||
Jeshuafreak, I'm not comfortable by any means with your posting that "anything goes in marriage." My wife and I have a happy marriage that is in its forty-third year, and I tell you frankly that neither of us subscribes to "anything goes" -- not by a long shot. There are things that two people -- even husband and wife -- can do that are perversions of the intimate act of love that God sanctions for husband and wife. Things like sadism. masochism, bondage and discipline, sodomy, and an almost endless number of bizarre fetishes. Sexual aberrations demean and debase the marriage bed and mock the sacred bond of matrimony. --Hank | ||||||
3 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Jeshuafreak | 52891 | ||
If either of you don't like it than don't do it obviously there are some things that aren' t biblically correct but where the Bible is silent let's not shout. Thank you for your feedback.****** You said, "Things like sadism. masochism, bondage and discipline, sodomy, and an almost endless number of bizarre fetishes. Sexual aberrations demean and debase the marriage bed and mock the sacred bond of matrimony. --Hank"*** I agree this would not be love ...... although anything that would be pleasing to one another..and I am not getting specific...seeing as this is a public forum. Use some sense and communicate openly with your wife or husband about what they would like. There are quite a few books on sexual intamacy written for Christians. One I recommend is 'Sexual Intamacy in Marriage' (foreward by Tony and Lois Evans) written by William Cutrer, M.D. and Sandra Glahn. ** I have the revised edition and obtained it through Focus On the Family. It is very concise and touches on alot of topics that can't be shared here. |
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4 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Hank | 52896 | ||
Jeshuafreak, you are perfectly free to agree or disagree, as you wish, with anything I've posted on this forum about marriage. The things I've said come not from guesses and not necessarily from marriage manuals, but from the harvest of actual knowledge and experience gained from over four decades of a happy and successful marriage. By the way, I wish you and your bride-to-be every success and happiness in your forthcoming marriage. --Hank | ||||||
5 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Jeshuafreak | 52900 | ||
Thanks Hank** And I appreciate your wise council, and hope to have further discussions about marriage in the future. -Jeshuafreak | ||||||
6 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Searcher56 | 52940 | ||
My dad had a rule ... looky, talky, no touchy. -What is the purpose of touching a person? --Is it needed to express your love? I hope not. If you don't like that rule, then -Does touching arouse either one ... phyiscally or mentally? STAY AWAY. Searcher |
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7 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Jeshuafreak | 52944 | ||
That is good advice. For teens with raging hormones. Or anyone else with problems of self control for that matter. | ||||||
8 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Searcher56 | 52951 | ||
Make that commitment today and recite to those you are with ... see if they are willing... it is not just those with raging hormones. | ||||||
9 | When does caressing go too far ? | 2 Corinthians | Jeshuafreak | 52983 | ||
You are right. I get cocky sometimes when all is well and I am not being tempted. I set myself up alot of times for a fall when I say, "Oh, I can hadle it." Proverbs says, 'What man can scoop hot coals into his lap and not get burnt?' I don't know the adress but I have heard this a few times...... Let me try to find it... I guess I paraphased it. It applies though. That is the nice thing about God's word. The Holy Spirit makes application. ****Proverbs 6 27Can a man take fire to his bosom, And his clothes not be burned? 28Can one walk on hot coals, And his feet not be seared? 29So is he who goes in to his neighbor's wife; Whoever touches her shall not be innocent. |
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