Bible Question: I was reading the question about the boyfriend looking at nudity. My question is, is it okay for a single man to look at porno? |
Bible Answer: I can only share with you my experience with my son. You see, porno was one of his problems as a teen, many years ago and I guess it still is because to this day as a grown man, married for several years, he still goes to weekly meetings. In these meetings, he meets other people, men and women who are all "confessed sex addicts." That is, they've got to get their "sexual fix" almost every day or more when they're actually hooked, just like alcoholics. Now, I'm proud to say, our son has been "on the wagon" now for almost a year and is now leading, promoting and teaching others to follow the example given them. Sex addiction is a very real and growing problem throughout this country, just ask any counselor in the larger cities and they'll give you the latest scoop about what I'm telling you. At its worst, this addiction can lead to rape and murder because its like a gigantic and very stong whirlpool. One doesn't realize the danger until it's too late. Don't allow your boyfriend to get sucked in. Instead I'd advise him to find some christian young men with whom he can confide his fears and weaknesses, someone he can trust to keep it confidential and then will pray for him and best of all, check on him and encourage to stay pure in mind. Phil 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy--meditate on these things. 9The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you. I do sincerely hope this helps you to resolve to be strong and faithful to our Lord and Master. Blessings to you. Country Girl |
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