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Bible Note: Ernie needs to stop asking for closure about this and allow the woman to change her mind. He's trying to hold on to the relationship and she doesn't want to. When the question is asked, "How important is it to gain forgivness from those you have wronged? ernie feels it important, as it is those you have hurt as wel as hurting God" we see that Ernie is the one who is choosing not to forgive and to hold something against her... she should have... she didn't... I would have.... Ernie needs to forgive her for what she did and for what she didn't do, for his sake and for Yeshua's (Jesus'). He may not see it now, but G-d intends good for them both, and He is the One that Ernie needs to look at and thank. G-d stepped between the two of them, and that was a mercy in some way. Ernie can't control her or be her Holy Spirit. He needs to make sure that he doesn't allow any bitterness or judgment towards her (or anyone else) remain in his heart. He should ask the L-rd what he himself needs to learn about his own actions in this case. In the end, that's all that he is responsible for. The Bible says, "As much as possible, live in peace with all men (and women)." She has told him how it is... and she doesn't wish to share more... and he can't make her... so he needs to bless her whenever he thinks of her and look at G-d and move on with courage to what G-d does have for him since this door is closed. |