Bible Question:
I have a marriage license through a minister of God. I was brought up as a Catholic. My husband died 17 years ago. My present husband was divorced. His xwife is remarried. I know that it was not because of unfaithfullnesst. We have been married 7 years. It is a good marriage and we are very happy together. It is unfathomable that we seperate. It would hurt so many people . Lately I have been asking him if we could get an annullment from his first marriage because I'm afraid that God may consider me as an adulterer. But my husband says that it is not necessary . I am having a hard time with this. Could you please enlighten me on this? |
Bible Answer: There are many doctrines out here and different interpretation of the scriptures. Matt 19:8 He *said to them, "Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. Then the scriptures says what God has put together let no man put assunder. How many marriages did God really put together????? I mean really??? I personally have never met anyonee and said I'm in love with his mind. My attraction was first physical, the rest came after getting to know him. I've been married twice. The first was for infidelity on his part. The second was he had eyes for my oldest daughter. So tell me was I suppose to stay in that marriage? I first sent my daughter to live with her father and I later left and thence divorced. Jer 17:9 says that "The heart is more deceitful than all else And is desperately sick; Who can understand it? I had no idea that his heart was like that. So was I suppose to stick around? No Phil 2:12 So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling; You have to work out this salvation, marriage with conviction from God. Bottom line You all are in love and married, which is right and pleasing to the Lord. Based on the scriptures your marriage is being honored by God....Annullment means to void...So if you went that way..Heck He knows he and the woman where still married by a priest of Judge or divorce the courts dissolves it... Don't sweat the small stuff...love your husband and enjoy him until death do you two part....This is my theory only.... Heb 13:4 Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. |
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