Subject: Porn in spouse overcome thru fasting? |
Bible Note: Bandaid, My heart really goes out to you! I am so sorry for your suffering on account of this. Your husband’s struggle is very common among us men and seeing the pain it causes just one wife is motivation for many others to stay pure. I can't offer more than the others Biblically; they have done so well, so I thought I'd tell you what we have done practically. I have bsafeonline (b-safe online) installed on my home and office computer. At the office I do not know the password so when I am alone I have no access. At home the temptation is far less with children around, and our computer is in the family room. I like this software because all others I tried I could “get around” easily, but with all my computer knowledge I have not been able to break this one or get around it. Your husband may not be willing at other places, but for the safety of your children and yourself, you can put something like this (and I recommend this one) on your home computers and retain the password for only yourself. Also, if your husband will not go to marriage counseling, then I'd suggest going alone, but find a really good one. Get references from couples who had success. There are good and not so good counselors just like any other thing. I truly hope you find respite from this suffering. God bless, MJH |