Bible Question: i am not married but i live with my boyfriend, we were married before. but we are know hesitant to remarry. i am 45 and he is 50 years old. it bothers me because i dont want to live in sin. we both love god and our lord jesus and i know we will be stumpling blocks for other people. how can i love my boyfriend and be with him without living in sin if he does not want to get marry. help |
Bible Answer: Hello, This is something that a lot of Christians struggle with of all ages. The answer is quite simple. It is impossible for it to be done. I understand the love you have for your boyfriend but at the end of the say sin is sin. JUst know that whatever decision you make God still loves you both. Of course he wants obedience from us, but he still loves us in our mess. I think the two of you should begin to pray and ask God to help you obey him in your relationship. He will begin to speak to you both about what should be done. You dont have to answer this here, but are you and your boyfriend having sex? Even if you didnt live together and you still have sex outside of marriage, this too is also a sin. |