Subject: Can a woman divorce man: Ongoing porn? |
Bible Note: Bandaid, Yes, I believe you have tried nearly everything. And I believe that you love your husband beyond his shortcomings. You asked, "Can prayer and fasting set him free?" Well, I have proof that it can. Yesterday, you blamed me for misunderstanding, and threatened to report me for harrassment. I forgave you instantaneously and I offered to pray and fast for your situation. You disagreed with my post and said you would not read any more from me. I completely understand, because there are some on the forum that I do not respond to even when they are being nice. Anyway, I did fast, today and the Spirit has turned our relationship into one that is mutually accepting. This is not because I fasted. I believe that the Holy Spirit saw that I cared enough to actually suffer (mildly) for your cause, and He brought to my heart and my mind what I was then able to put into my post. Then there was a 180 bat-turn for our situation. God is capable, and He truly wants to do it again. But what I said about Him waiting, and doing things on His time still stands. It is not the fasting that effects the change, -but you know that. I had an idea tonight, with help from the Lord. Can you send an anonymous card in the mail? You can maybe write in it that you are trying to help, but if he does not know who its from, he can not answer to the person whether he ever even received it. (type, or write with your left hand) It might drive him to embarrasment wondering who sent it. You might include this verse: "Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are good, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are bad, your body also is full of darkness. See to it, then, that the light within you is not darkness." -Jesus (Luke 11:34-35 NIV) Then you can send a card with a link to a site for porn addiction I have found a site for you, at www.porn-free.org/ (I found the above verse at the site) MAKE sure that you put the dash between the words or you will be directed to a site that actually offers free porn. This is from the site: "This site also is intended to help people discover how to live the "new life" that comes through knowing Jesus Christ and living by the power of the Holy Spirit. Many people may put their faith in Jesus, but how many people go on to live as the "new creation" that the scriptures say they can be? Jesus said, "I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly" (John 10:10). Living as a new creation is the secret to experiencing God's joy and peace in life!" They also claim to Connect spouses of sex addicts for "e-fellowship" So, I hope that you will try my suggestion, about remaining anonymous. Send the link to the site with the paragraph above to him in a card that tells him you care. Anonymously. Then send another card in a day or two with a similar message, always anonymously. Continue to fast and pray but be aware of the spiritual warfare that is sure to ramp up. The enemy does not want to lose this one! I will pray for your victory. keliy |