Subject: Can a woman divorce man: Ongoing porn? |
Bible Note: Believe me I have tried everything. He has at his disposal Christian counselors that specifically deal with "Sexual Brokeness" or awesome websites or mens support groups. He refuses to get invloved in any of those as he feels he can do it on his own. The "on his own" has lasted a good 4 years now since my discovery with no change whatsoever. Only worse. My feeling is that other areas such as pride, denial, forgiveness and shame need to be addressed first. I cannot do any of that for him, and I and my children are no longer in his home. I can only share with him from time to time, but his feelings are like eggshells. It is best for me to stay away as much as possible. All I can give is prayer about the areas I see he is struggling in. How much prayer is enough? God give me wisdom in what I do say. In what i ask for. Give me strength to face the reality of this situation wherever that leads. I love my husband enough to want him free even if it means without me. And at this point I don't even know who he really is anymore. He does seem to be possesed at times and it is scary to see such a talented man who knows compassion so far from who he was and now is becoming something I don't know. Can prayer and fasting set him free? I hope so. I don't care what anyone else thinks about this, if an agape type of love for someone is the reason behind fasting and praying I don't think there is any other better use for faith in it. |