Bible Question: so what if u suspect that ur spouse is cheating by her actions? |
Bible Answer: First - don't jump to rash conclusions. Second - if it is true confront your spouse. Third - be prepared to forgive if your spouse repents. Fourth - take a very hard look at how you have damaged the relationship. Have you been selfish? A spouses main goal should be to minister to our mate. Most often the first thing we ask ourselves is what can he/she do to make me happier. WRONG!! We should be asking, "What can I do to make him/her happy? How can I minister to them and make their day better?" I know it is hard to think that way, but it does and will work. Oops!! :) I better get off my soap box! I will suggest a book though for anyone out there having problems or that would just like to improve their relationship. ----- "Marriage Builders" by Dr. Larry Crabb ------- Excellent book!! God Bless. |