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1 | What does the bible say about separation | 1 Cor 7:39 | ames | 59216 | ||
Is either husband or wife free to date another person while they are separated? Would this be adultrey? Does God allow divorce when you marry a controller, who is abusive, verbally, physically, mentally and doesn't want to leave you anything when he dies but wants you to leave him a car, lifetime estate to the house, and money to take care of it. His whole marriage proposal was about what I would give him and he said he had nothing to give me but that he was giving me himself. Well I was also giving him myself. He had a 12 year old and has led a real bad life and I was wife #4. I was married 39 years and my husband died. | ||||||
2 | What does the bible say about separation | 1 Cor 7:39 | Sir Pent | 59229 | ||
When I read this question, I couldn't help but wonder if there were other more important questions that you should be asking. It sounds like you are in a very difficult situation, but it also sounds like you knew that when you entered it. The question is why? Why would you say yes to a proposal that was only "about what you could give him"? Why would you be "wife #4" to a person who had led a "real bad life"? Why is a marriage falling apart, yet everything is presented as his fault alone. Why is there a 12 year old child who will be drastically impacted by the decisions you make, and yet virtually nothing is mentioned about them. It seems like there are root problems here that need to be resolved. I would like to understand where you are comming from better, but perhaps the best answer would be to spend some significant time talking to the pastor of your home church. If these root issues are not addressed and resolved, then moving on to date someone else (before or after the divorce) will likely just lead to more pain and sufferring. |
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3 | What does the bible say about separation | 1 Cor 7:39 | beensetfree | 59242 | ||
I am in complete support and agreement with SirPent. Very good questions to consider and find answers to before taking any other steps. Doesn't mean it won't be hard, but the right road seems to always be hard. But the blessings are worth it. | ||||||
4 | Is my husband committing adultery? | 1 Cor 7:39 | ames | 59285 | ||
I'm not wanting to date but my husband who I am legally separated from as of 4/3/02 this year is dating and I think he is committing adultery. Am I correct? | ||||||
5 | Is my husband committing adultery? | 1 Cor 7:39 | beensetfree | 59293 | ||
Ames: Based on 1 Cor. 7:39 and many other scriptures, it appears that yes he is commiting adultery. Having said that however, pray for him. Also pray for yourself, to remain true to God's truth and to hold His word as authority in your life, no matter what others (your husband specifically) do. God bless. | ||||||
6 | Do I have god's pl fpr a dovprce | 1 Cor 7:39 | ames | 66135 | ||
My husband wants to come back but demands my Mercedes I had prior to marriage of 39 yrs. He has no home and a car also a 12 yr. old son. He has him, Married a 27 yr. younger girl for 3rd marriage. Wants lifetime rights to home, 20 percent of anything not designated to my sons and the car or else I am to sell the car and get another one because he says I tricked him at the prenuptial. He has nothing and can give nothing. Says he has problems with the car. Separated. Would God want me to take him back. He has dated since he left and divorce can't be until April 2003. He keeps his son. We are 66 and 67 Keeps communications with exwife who gets off on their old relationship I think he should stick to things regarding the son only. We never went anywhere that she doesn't have to call for something. Also was keeping contact with an exmistress and lied about it for 3 yr |
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7 | Do I have god's pl fpr a dovprce | 1 Cor 7:39 | Hank | 66142 | ||
Ames, even though I feel sure that my colleagues on the forum join me in expressing sorrow in regard to your domestic problems, and in prayer on behalf of you and your family, it would hardly be useful to you to seek or act on advice from the members of this forum because we are neither acquainted with the details of your situation nor qualified as professional counsellors. Please therefore consider seeking help from a trusted pastor or other trained Christian counsellor. For your protection and privacy, it is wise to stay on the side of caution and seek confidential assistance with personal matters such as this rather than air them on a public web site. Our prayers are with you and our wishes extend to you that God will guide you to a happy resolution of your problems. --Hank | ||||||