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1 | Should We Get Married Again? | Matt 19:4 | A_B | 55470 | ||
I was married 23 years ago. Two years ago after my husband had a terrible addiction problem, and serveral attempts of reconstructing our marriage, we divorced. After a serious accident that envolved our daughter we are back together again. I remained faithful during our separation, however I'm not sure about him. Should we get married again? I'm very confused about this and need some biblical advice. I've searched the scriptures, however, I find varried things about divorce and marriage. Also, He will go to church with me, but reruses to do devotions with me. I really want us to be close in the Lord, and I know that through him is the only way for it to work. He says that I am trying to put demands on him by asking him to do this? He has control over his addiction, and seems to be trying. He was saved several years ago, but says he has problems with guilt. Please help? | ||||||
2 | Should We Get Married Again? | Matt 19:4 | Ken John | 55471 | ||
I am not an expert in this area of marriage but can only refer you to Matthew 19:4-12 as a guide and you will need to pray together about this as God answers prayer. From past experience of others, including my own family, who remarried after being divorced, once there is a rift it takes a lot of courage and prayer to heal the relationship. Have you considered seeking the counseling of your pastor or a Christian Counsellor ? It's really good that your husband goes to church with you. Is he a believer in Jesus and does he read God's Word? Is your relationship such that you can talk openly with him about his faith and how he feels about God and also about you and him and your futures together ? I hope my answer has helped ? You know that Jesus loves you both. Jesus bears our burdons, Ken John. |
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3 | Should We Get Married Again? | Matt 19:4 | A_B | 55474 | ||
I cant understand him. He claims to be a believer, however, he will not get counseling, or pray together with me. The marriage devotion book that I bought has excellent question that couples should discuss together to open up the doors to communication. He says that he is not comfortable doing this. I so afraid now that if he is avoiding these things, that it is just a matter of time before he betrays me. | ||||||
4 | Should We Get Married Again? | Matt 19:4 | Norrie | 55477 | ||
I think you hit it w/he "claims" to be a believer. My husband claimed that too but there is no fruit. We've had a miserable 10 yrs too but won't divorce, stick it thru anyway. The Bible also says that if an unbeliving spouse wants to go, let them, so I would think this means you don't HAVE to remarry. I'd pray long and hard before I jump from the frying pan into the fire again. When he shows fruit, then you can make a decision then after much prayer. If you're making it on your own, I'd stay that way till I knew for certain what God's will is, not do anything I might regret later, just my opinion. :) | ||||||