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1 | DO NOT BE YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS.... | 2 Cor 6:14 | heaven | 53487 | ||
HELLO EVERYONE, I AM IN NEED OF A LOT OF ENCOURAGEMENT. I JUST BROKE UP WITH MY LONG TIME BOYFRIEND, BECAUSE HE DECIDED HE DID NOT WANT TO BE A DISCIPLE OF JESUS CHRIST ANYMORE. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALL MOST 5 YEARS AND WE HAVE A SON TOGETHER. ABOUT A YEAR AND A HALF AGO I GOT BAPTIZED, THEN 6MOS. LATTER HE GOT BAPTIZED ALSO. WE WERE VERY CLOSE TO GETTING MARRIED BUT HE BEGAN STRUGGLING SPIRITUALLY. IT STARTED WHEN HIS MOTHER DIED, NOW IT HAS TURNED INTO HIM NOT WANTING TO BE A CHRISTIAN ANY LONGER. I DEFINITELY STRUGGLED AND PLEADED WITH HIM, BECAUSE HE IS MAKING THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF HIS LIFE. I TOLD HIM OUR RELATIONSHIP WOULD BEGIN TO CHANGE ONCE HE MADE THIS DECISION, AND IT HAS GREATLY, ABOUT A MONTH AGO WE STARTED ARGUING A LOT AND HIS PRIORITIES BEGAN TO CHANGE. OF COURSE HE CAN'T SEE WHAT I AM SAYING, ABOUT HIM HE JUST THINKS THAT HE HAS EVOLVED SO MUCH AS A PERSON THAT HE CAN'T ACCEPT THAT THERE IS ONLY "ONE TRUTH". HE BELEIVES CHRISTIANITY CAN'T BE THE ONLY WAY. FOR THIS REASON I KNEW WE HAD TO PART WAYS, BECAUSE HE BEGAN TO MAKE ME STRUGGLE SPIRITUALLY ALSO. THIS IS REALLY HARD BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE ALL OF THE SUDDEN MY WHOLE LIFE HAS CHANGED. AND SATAN HAS BEEN REALLY ATTACKING ME ALSO, NOW I REALLY DON'T KNOW IF I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION OR NOT, BECAUSE IT FEELS LIKE TO ME LIKE WE JUST ABANDONED EACH OTHER MAYBE WE COULD HAVE DONE MORE OR I COULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING DIFFERENT TO MAKE HIM SEE THE TRUTH. I ALSO FEEL REALLY ANGRY WITH HIM BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE WE HAD SOMETHING WONDERFUL TOGETHER, A COMMON LOVE FOR GOD …WE BASED OUR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP ON GOD AND THE TEACHINGS IN THE BIBLE AND OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS AMAZING. SINCE HE DECIDED TO WALK AWAY FROM GOD NOTHING IS THE SAME…NOT TO BE WHINNY OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT…BUT ITS NOT FAIR!!! MY HEART IS BROKEN. I AM NOT ASKING HIM DO ANYTHING OUTRAGEOUS I JUST WANT HIM TO LOVE GOD THE WAY HE USED TO FOR HIS OWN SALVATION. |
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2 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | heaven | 50490 | ||
Thanks justme, for getting back to me so quickly. The book you mentioned Tough Love who is it by, and can you give me a brief description also. thanks, heaven |
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3 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | heaven | 50442 | ||
Dear Justme Thank you for your advice. I know I should have put this in my original question, but my boyfriend and me conceived our son before we became a Christian. I know my question was confusing in that respect "I apologize". I take my decision to serve my Lord very seriously. We are not living together and we are remaining absolutely pure until we become married. I do not practice hypocritical Christianity; I keep close watch over my life and doctrine very closely. I agree with the end of you letter "I suggest you and your child's father part until he is genuinely saved, and you have a ring, and date to marry, and get married and then unite as husband and wife. This is called repentance" we are actually doing this right know. We did not officially begin to date each other again until we were both Christians. Before he began to struggle and doubt God, we had made it to the point when we were about to begin pre-marital counseling, but then all this happened, now everything has been placed on hold. Our convictions and love for the Lord is slowly changing and not to mention the relationship also. I love having a spiritual relationship, and now things are so different. It’s becoming difficult for me to trust him because he is growing further from God. I am really trying to be patient with him and I have been studying “love” and “wisdom” in the bible, because it has sometimes been a challenge for me to love him the way I used to. Because spiritually he is unable to take care of me the way he used too. I am really trying to understand or at least empathize with what he is going through, but its just like I want to snap him out of it because satan has him so deceived into thinking our Lord is not good and righteous and his walk with God is all in vain. It really hurts my heart to see him pulling from God. I have tried buying him books about grieving and God, calling some of the brothers from our church so he can open up to someone else besides me, and even praying with him, but it still seems like his heart is so hard. I have faith God is going to work all of this out I just need the lord to give me direction. Thanks. |
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4 | Mom died Angry with God | Not Specified | heaven | 50136 | ||
How do you keep someone who has just lost a parent from being angry with God? My Boyfriend and I are both disciples/christians a little while after our son was born his mother past away. It has been almost a year now and he has just began to cope with his mother's passing. Along with trying to understand why his mom is gone a lot of questions he has about God has come up and he has also began to wonder if his mom is in heaven or hell. He has a lot of anger in him and I can see him beginning to change, he has become more worldly and less spiritual. He has even stopped praying and reading his bible. As for me it has become really difficult to handle him being unspiritual, now our lives and our beliefs are totally different. We were also planning on getting married this year now everything is placed on hold, because I do not feel good about marrying him being this unspirtual. Also, I would like our son to have a spiritual father who could teach our son about the goodness of God. It hurts me to him going back to his old lifestyle before he became a christian. I want to help him through this and I want us to become a family. But it is becoming very difficult for me to remain spiritual throughout all of this because it feels like I am just giving and giving and nothing is getting any better. I understand it takes a very long time to handle when a parent passes but how do I make him see that God still loves him. I pray that someone out there can give me some good advice on how to deal with this situation. |
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5 | Mom died Angry with God | Bible general Archive 1 | heaven | 50147 | ||
How do you keep someone who has just lost a parent from being angry with God? My Boyfriend and I are both disciples/christians a little while after our son was born his mother past away. It has been almost a year now and he has just began to cope with his mother's passing. Along with trying to understand why his mom is gone a lot of questions he has about God has come up and he has also began to wonder if his mom is in heaven or hell. He has a lot of anger in him and I can see him beginning to change, he has become more worldly and less spiritual. He has even stopped praying and reading his bible. As for me it has become really difficult to handle him being unspiritual, now our lives and our beliefs are totally different. We were also planning on getting married this year now everything is placed on hold, because I do not feel good about marrying him being this unspirtual. Also, I would like our son to have a spiritual father who could teach our son about the goodness of God. It hurts me to him going back to his old lifestyle before he became a christian. I want to help him through this and I want us to become a family. But it is becoming very difficult for me to remain spiritual throughout all of this because it feels like I am just giving and giving and nothing is getting any better. I understand it takes a very long time to handle when a parent passes but how do I make him see that God still loves him. I pray that someone out there can give me some good advice on how to deal with this situation. |
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