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1 | how do i convince my wife to follow me | Eph 5:25 | valspapa | 198585 | ||
i was saved 13 months ago and have been attending the church that my wife was membered at.the pastor is my wifes brother-in-law.the problem is that it is not growing and is somewhat -rednecked- it is really countryfied with bibbed overall mentality.everyone there is lacking in education [that is not the reason for my concerns]but it adds to the delima.the pastor is really bullish and after ten years of service,last sundays attendance was 12 including the pastor and his wife.the singing is really lousy with people forgetting the words,some who sing each week behind the alter sing the same songs each week with the words or hymnal still mess up constantly,i feel that they could at least practice and get it right,[after all, this is our lord we sing about and we are in his house]GET IT RIGHT.i have convinced my wife we need to move on to somewhere more godly. but her sister has already started in on her with the remark that god will beat me up for leaving,i cant say that they are lacking in the lord,for it is not my desire to knock anyone down.there is a need for sure to teach everyone,but my wife and i are not growing,if i must go on without my wife,so be it but,i fear that as i learn more and she stays behind,that it will cause more problems between us,i want for her as much as i want for myself,,please advise | ||||||
2 | how do i convince my wife to follow me | Eph 5:25 | justme | 198616 | ||
Valspapa: Brother in Jesus Christ, you have not offended anyone on the forum. Reading your post about offending, I feel you are a stsrving new born in Christ. Am I right? You need to get your wife on board with you. Point out the scriptual errors you believe to be evident at the church and Pastor. She needs to see that your growth is very important to both of you. I in no way wanted to meke you feel anything but welcome here at the SBF. Let us know how this works, and maybe as we pray together we can help. Blessings. justme |
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