Prov 23:1When you sit down to dine with a ruler, Consider carefully what is [set] before you;
Prov 23:2For you will put a knife to your throat If you are a man of great appetite.
Prov 23:3Do not desire his delicacies, For it is deceptive food [offered to you with questionable motives].
Prov 23:4¶ Do not weary yourself [with the overwhelming desire] to gain wealth; Cease from your own understanding of it. [Prov 28:20; 1 Tim 6:9, 10]
Prov 23:5When you set your eyes on wealth, it is [suddenly] gone. For wealth certainly makes itself wings Like an eagle that flies to the heavens.
Prov 23:6¶ Do not eat the bread of a selfish man, Or desire his delicacies;
Prov 23:7For as he thinks in his heart, so is he [in behavior--one who manipulates]. He says to you, "Eat and drink," Yet his heart is not with you [but it is begrudging the cost].
Prov 23:8The morsel which you have eaten you will vomit up, And you will waste your compliments.
Prov 23:9¶ Do not speak in the ears of a fool, For he will despise the [godly] wisdom of your words. [Is 32:6]
Prov 23:10¶ Do not move the ancient landmark [at the boundary of the property] And do not go into the fields of the fatherless [to take what is theirs], [Deut 19:14; 27:17; Prov 22:28]
Prov 23:11For their Redeemer is strong and mighty; He will plead their case against you.
Prov 23:12Apply your heart to discipline And your ears to words of knowledge.
Prov 23:13¶ Do not withhold discipline from the child; If you swat him with a reed-like rod [applied with godly wisdom], he will not die.
Prov 23:14You shall swat him with the reed-like rod And rescue his life from Sheol (the nether world, the place of the dead).
Prov 23:15¶ My son, if your heart is wise, My heart will also be glad;
Prov 23:16Yes, my heart will rejoice When your lips speak right things.
Prov 23:17¶ Do not let your heart envy sinners [who live godless lives and have no hope of salvation], But [continue to] live in the [reverent, worshipful] fear of the LORD day by day.
Prov 23:18Surely there is a future [and a reward], And your hope and expectation will not be cut off.
Prov 23:19Listen, my son, and be wise, And direct your heart in the way [of the LORD].
Prov 23:20Do not associate with heavy drinkers of wine, Or with gluttonous eaters of meat, [Is 5:22; Luke 21:34; Rom 13:13; Eph 5:18]
Prov 23:21For the heavy drinker and the glutton will come to poverty, And the drowsiness [of overindulgence] will clothe one with rags.
Prov 23:22¶ Listen to your father, who sired you, And do not despise your mother when she is old.
Prov 23:23Buy truth, and do not sell it; Get wisdom and instruction and understanding.
Prov 23:24¶ The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice, And he who sires a wise child will have joy in him.
Prov 23:25Let your father and your mother be glad, And let her who gave birth to you rejoice [in your wise and godly choices].
Prov 23:26¶ My son, give me your heart And let your eyes delight in my ways,
Prov 23:27For a prostitute is a deep pit, And an immoral woman is a narrow well.
Prov 23:28She lurks and lies in wait like a robber [who waits for prey], And she increases the faithless among men.
Prov 23:29¶ Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Whose eyes are red and dim?
Prov 23:30Those who linger long over wine, Those who go to taste mixed wine. [Prov 20:1; Eph 5:18]
Prov 23:31Do not look at wine when it is red, When it sparkles in the glass, When it goes down smoothly.
Prov 23:32At the last it bites like a serpent And stings like a viper.
Prov 23:33Your [drunken] eyes will see strange things And your mind will utter perverse things [untrue things, twisted things].
Prov 23:34And you will be [as unsteady] as one who lies down in the middle of the sea, And [as vulnerable to disaster] as one who lies down on the top of a ship's mast, saying,
Prov 23:35"They struck me, but I was not hurt! They beat me, but I did not feel it! When will I wake up? I will seek more wine."