But I made up my mind anot to grieve you with another painful visit.1 Cor 4:21; 2 Cor 12:21 2 For if I acause you grief by a well-deserved rebuke, who then provides me enjoyment but the very one whom I have made sad?2 Cor 7:8 3 And I 1awrote this same thing to you, so that bwhen I came, I would not be filled with sorrow by those who ought to make me glad, for I trusted in you and cfelt confident that my joy would be shared by all of you.Many scholars believe the contents of the communication to which Paul refers in this verse are implied within vv 5-11, and again in 7:5-12.2 Cor 2:9; 7:8, 121 Cor 4:21; 2 Cor 12:21Gal 5:10; 2 Thess 3:4; Philem 21 4 For I awrote to you out of great distress and with an anguished heart, and with many tears, not to cause you sorrow but to make you realize the overflowing love which I have especially for you.2 Cor 2:9; 7:8, 12
5 But aif 1someone has caused all this sorrow, he has caused it not to me, but in some degree—not to put it too severely— he has distressed and grieved all of you.The incident and offender to which Paul is referring is unclear, but it may have involved some affront or challenge to Paul’s position or authority during his visit to Corinth.1 Cor 5:1f 6 For such a one athis punishment by the majority is sufficient,1 Cor 5:4f; 2 Cor 7:11 7 so instead of further rebuke, now you should rather graciously aforgive and comfort and encourage him, to keep him from being overwhelmed by excessive sorrow.Gal 6:1; Eph 4:32 8 Therefore I urge you to reinstate him in your affections and reaffirm your 1love for him.The key to understanding this and other statements about love is to know that this love (the Greek word agape) is not so much a matter of emotion as it is of doing things for the benefit of another person, that is, having an unselfish concern for another and a willingness to seek the best for other believers. 9 For this was my purpose in awriting, to see if you bwould stand the test, whether you are obedient and ccommitted to following my instruction in all things.2 Cor 2:3f2 Cor 8:2; Phil 2:222 Cor 7:15; 10:6 10 If you forgive anyone anything, I too forgive that one; and what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, has been for your sake ain the presence of and with the approval of Christ,1 Cor 5:4; 2 Cor 4:6 11 to keep aSatan from taking advantage of us; for bwe are not ignorant of his schemes.Matt 4:10Luke 22:31; 2 Cor 4:4; 1 Pet 5:8
12 Now when I arrived at aTroas to preach the bgood news of Christ, even though a cdoor of opportunity opened for me in the Lord,Acts 16:8Rom 1:1; 2 Cor 4:3, 4; 8:18; 9:13; 10:14; 11:4, 7; 1 Thess 3:2Acts 14:27 13 my spirit acould not rest because I did not find my brother bTitus there; so csaying goodbye to them, I left for dMacedonia.2 Cor 7:52 Cor 7:6, 13f; 8:6, 16, 23; 12:18; Gal 2:1, 3; 2 Tim 4:10; Titus 1:4Mark 6:46Rom 15:26
14 aBut thanks be to God, who always bleads us in triumph in Christ, and through us spreads and makes evident everywhere the sweet cfragrance of the dknowledge of Him.Rom 1:8; 6:17; 1 Cor 15:57; 2 Cor 8:16; 9:15Col 2:15Song 1:3; Ezek 20:41; Eph 5:2; Phil 4:181 Cor 12:8 15 For we are the asweet fragrance of Christ which ascends to God, discernible both among bthose who are being saved and among those who are perishing;Song 1:3; Ezek 20:41; Eph 5:2; Phil 4:181 Cor 1:18 16 ato the latter one an aroma from death to death a fatal, offensive odor, but to the other an aroma from life to life a vital fragrance, living and fresh. And who is badequate and sufficiently qualified for these things?Luke 2:34; John 9:39; 1 Pet 2:7f2 Cor 3:5f 17 For we are not like many, acting like merchants apeddling God’s word shortchanging and adulterating God’s message; but bfrom pure uncompromised motives, as commissioned and sent from God, we speak His message in Christ cin the sight of God.2 Cor 4:2; Gal 1:6-91 Cor 5:8; 2 Cor 1:12; 1 Thess 2:4; 1 Pet 4:112 Cor 12:19