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Joab Tells David to Speak to His Servants

Then it was told to Joab, “Behold, athe king is weeping and mourns for Absalom.” And the salvation that day was turned to mourning for all the people, for the people heard it said that day, “The king is grieved for his son.” So the people stole away to enter into the city that day, as people who are dishonored steal away when they flee in battle. But as for the king, he awrapped his face up. Then the king cried out with a loud voice, “bO my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!” Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “Today you have shamed the faces of all your servants, who today have provided escape for your life and the lives of your sons and daughters, the lives of your wives, and the lives of your concubines, by loving those who hate you, and by hating those who love you. For you have informed all of us today that 1princes and servants are nothing to you; for I know this day that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, surely then it would be right in your eyes. So now, arise, go out and speak to the heart of your servants, for I swear by Yahweh, if you do not go out, surely anot a man will pass the night with you, and this will be of greater evil for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now.”

David Returns to Jerusalem

So the king arose and sat in the gate. And they told all the people, saying, “Behold, the king is asitting in the gate.” Then all the people came before the king.

Now bIsrael had fled, each to his tent. And it happened that all the people were disputing throughout all the tribes of Israel, saying, “aThe king delivered us from the 1hand of our enemies and bprovided us escape from the 2hand of the Philistines, but now che has fled out of the land from Absalom. 10 However, Absalom, whom we anointed over us, has died in battle. So now, why are you silent about having the king return?”

11 Now King David had sent to aZadok and Abiathar the priests, saying, “Speak to the elders of Judah, saying, ‘Why are you the last to have the king return to his house, while the word of all Israel has come to the king, even to his house? 12 You are my brothers; ayou are my bone and my flesh. Why then should you be the last to have the king return?’ 13 And say to aAmasa, ‘Are you not my bone and my flesh? bMay God do so to me, and more also, if you will not be ccommander of the army before me continually din place of Joab.’” 14 Thus he inclined the hearts of all the men of Judah aas one man, so they sent word to the king, saying, “Return, you and all your servants.” 15 The king then returned and came as far as the Jordan. And Judah came to aGilgal in order to go to meet the king, to cause the king to pass over across the Jordan.

16 Then aShimei the son of Gera, the Benjamite who was from Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men of Judah to meet King David. 17 Now there were one thousand men of Benjamin with him, with aZiba the young man of the house of Saul, and his fifteen sons and his twenty servants with him; and they rushed to the Jordan before the king. 18 Then they kept passing over the ford to cause the king’s household to pass over, and to do what was good in his sight. And Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king as he was about to pass over the Jordan. 19 So he said to the king, “aLet not my lord consider me guilty, nor remember what your servant did wrong on the day when my lord the king went out from Jerusalem, so that the king would 1take it to heart. 20 For your servant knows that I have sinned; therefore behold, I have come today, athe first of all the house of Joseph to go down to meet my lord the king.” 21 But Abishai the son of Zeruiah said, “aShould not Shimei be put to death for this, bbecause he cursed the anointed of Yahweh?” 22 David then said, “aWhat have I to do with you, O sons of Zeruiah, that you should this day be an adversary to me? bShould any man be put to death in Israel today? For do I not know that I am king over Israel today?” 23 And the king said to Shimei, “aYou shall not die.” Thus the king swore to him.

24 Now aMephibosheth the 1son of Saul had come down to meet the king; and bhe had not done anything for his feet, nor done anything for his mustache, nor cwashed his clothes, from the day the king departed until the day he came home in peace. 25 Now it happened when he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, that the king said to him, “aWhy did you not go with me, Mephibosheth?” 26 So he answered, “O my lord, the king, my servant deceived me; for your servant said, ‘I will saddle a donkey for myself that I may ride on it and go with the king,’ abecause your servant is lame. 27 Moreover, ahe has slandered your servant to my lord the king; but my lord the king is blike the angel of God, therefore do what is good in your sight. 28 For aall my father’s household was nothing but men worthy of death before my lord the king; byet you set your servant among those who ate at your own table. What right do I have yet that I should 1complain anymore to the king?” 29 So the king said to him, “Why do you still speak of your affairs? I have 1decided, ‘You and Ziba shall divide the land.’” 30 And Mephibosheth said to the king, “Let him even take it all, since my lord the king has come in peace to his own house.”

31 Now aBarzillai the Gileadite had come down from Rogelim; and he passed over the Jordan with the king in order to send him off over the Jordan. 32 Now Barzillai was very old, being eighty years old; and he had 1asustained the king while he stayed at Mahanaim, for he was a very great man. 33 And the king said to Barzillai, “You pass over with me and I will 1sustain you in Jerusalem with me.” 34 But Barzillai said to the king, “aHow long 1have I yet to live, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem? 35 I am 1now aeighty years old. Can I know between good and bad? Or can your servant taste what I eat or what I drink? Or can I hear anymore bthe voice of singing men and women? cWhy then should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king? 36 Your servant would merely pass over the Jordan with the king. Why should the king compensate me with this reward? 37 Please let your servant return, that I may die in my own city near the grave of my father and my mother. However, here is your servant aChimham, let him pass over with my lord the king, and do for him what is good in your sight.” 38 So the king answered, “Chimham shall pass over with me, and I will do for him what is good in your sight; and whatever you 1require of me, I will do for you.” 39 Then all the people passed over the Jordan and the king passed over too. The king then akissed Barzillai and blessed him, and he returned to his place.

40 Now the king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went on with him; and all the people of Judah and also ahalf the people of Israel 1accompanied the king. 41 And behold, all the men of Israel came to the king and said to the king, “aWhy had our brothers bthe men of Judah stolen you away, and caused the king and his household and all David’s men with him to pass over the Jordan?” 42 Then all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because athe king is a close relative to 1us. Why then 2are you angry about this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king’s expense, or has 3anything been taken for us?” 43 But the men of Israel answered the men of Judah and said, “1aWe have ten parts in the king, therefore 2we also have more claim on David than you. Why then did you treat us with contempt? Was it not 3our word first to have 4our king return?” Yet the words of the men of Judah were harsher than the words of the men of Israel.

Joab Disapproves of David’s Mourning

1Then it was reported to Joab, “Behold, athe king is weeping and he mourns for Absalom.” So the 1victory that day was turned into mourning for all the people, because the people heard it said that day, “The king is in mourning over his son.” And the people entered the city surreptitiously that day, just as people who are humiliated surreptitiously flee in battle. And the king acovered his face and 1cried out with a loud voice, “bMy son Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son!” Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “Today you have shamed 1all your servants, who have saved your life today and the lives of your sons and daughters, the lives of your wives, and the lives of your concubines, by loving those who hate you, and by hating those who love you. For you have revealed today that 1commanders and servants are nothing to you; for I know today that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then it would be right 2as far as you are concerned. Now therefore arise, go out and speak 1kindly to your servants, for I swear by the LORD, if you do not go out, ano man will stay the night with you, and this will be worse for you than all the misfortune that has 2happened to you from your youth until now!”

David Restored as King

So the king got up and sat at the gate. When they told all the people, saying, “Behold, the king is asitting at the gate,” then all the people came before the king.

Now bIsrael had fled, each to his tent. And all the people were quarreling throughout the tribes of Israel, saying, “aThe king rescued us from the 1hands of our enemies and bsaved us from the 2hands of the Philistines, but now che has fled out of the land from Absalom. 10 However, Absalom, whom we anointed over us, has died in battle. Now then, why are you silent about bringing the king back?”

11 Then King David sent word to aZadok and Abiathar the priests, saying, “Speak to the elders of Judah, saying, ‘Why are you the last to bring the king back to his house, since the word of all Israel has come to the king, even to his house? 12 You are my brothers; ayou are my bone and my flesh. Why then should you be the last to bring back the king?’ 13 And say to aAmasa, ‘Are you not my bone and my flesh? bMay God do so to me, and more so, if you will not be ccommander of the army 1for me continually, din place of Joab.’” 14 So he turned the hearts of all the men of Judah aas one man, so that they sent word to the king, saying,Return, you and all your servants.” 15 The king then returned and came as far as the Jordan. And the men of Judah came to aGilgal in order to go to meet the king, to escort the king across the Jordan.

16 Then aShimei the son of Gera, the Benjaminite who was from Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men of Judah to meet King David. 17 And there were a thousand men of Benjamin with him, and aZiba the servant of the house of Saul, and his fifteen sons and his twenty servants with him; and they rushed to the Jordan before the king. 18 Then they crossed the shallow places repeatedly to bring over the king’s household, and to do what was good in his sight. And Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king as he was about to cross the Jordan. 19 And he said to the king, “aMay my lord not consider me guilty, nor call to mind what your servant did wrong on the day when my lord the king went out from Jerusalem, so that the king would 1take it to heart. 20 For your servant knows that I have sinned; so behold, I have come today, athe first of all the house of Joseph to go down to meet my lord the king.” 21 But Abishai the son of Zeruiah responded, “aShould Shimei not be put to death for this, bthe fact that he cursed the LORDS anointed?” 22 David then said, “aWhat 1is there between you and me, you sons of Zeruiah, that you should be an adversary to me today? bShould anyone be put to death in Israel today? For do I not know that I am king over Israel today?” 23 So the king said to Shimei, “aYou shall not die.” The king also swore to him.

24 Then aMephibosheth the 1grandson of Saul came down to meet the king; but bhe had neither 2tended to his feet, nor 3trimmed his mustache, nor cwashed his clothes since the day the king departed until the day he came home in peace. 25 And it was when he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, that the king said to him, “aWhy did you not go with me, Mephibosheth?” 26 So he said, “My lord the king, my servant betrayed me; for your servant said, ‘I will 1saddle the donkey for myself so that I may ride on it and go with the king,’ asince your servant cannot walk. 27 Furthermore, ahe has slandered your servant to my lord the king; but my lord the king is blike the angel of God, therefore do what is good in your sight. 28 For aall my father’s household was only people worthy of death to my lord the king; byet you placed your servant among those who ate at your own table. So what right do I still have, that I should 1complain anymore to the king?” 29 So the king said to him, “Why do you still speak of your affairs? I have 1decided, ‘You and Ziba shall divide the land.’” 30 And Mephibosheth said to the king, “Let him even take it all, since my lord the king has come safely to his own house.”

31 Now aBarzillai the Gileadite had come down from Rogelim; and he went on to the Jordan with the king to 1escort him over the Jordan. 32 Barzillai was very old: eighty years old; and he had aprovided the king food while he stayed in Mahanaim, for he was a very great man. 33 So the king said to Barzillai, “You cross over with me, and I will provide you food in Jerusalem with me.” 34 But Barzillai said to the king, “aHow long 1do I still have to live, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem? 35 I am 1now aeighty years old. Can I distinguish between good and bad? Or can your servant taste what I eat or what I drink? Or can I still hear bthe voice of men and women singing? cWhy then should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king? 36 Your servant would merely cross over the Jordan with the king. So why should the king compensate me with this reward? 37 Please let your servant return, so that I may die in my own city near the grave of my father and my mother. However, here is your servant aChimham; let him cross over with my lord the king, and do for him what is good in your sight.” 38 And the king answered, “Chimham shall cross over with me, and I will do for him what is good in your sight; and whatever you 1require of me, I will do for you.” 39 All the people crossed over the Jordan and the king crossed too. The king then akissed Barzillai and blessed him, and he returned to his place.

40 Now the king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went on with him; and all the people of Judah and also ahalf the people of Israel 1accompanied the king. 41 And behold, all the men of Israel came to the king and said to the king, “aWhy have our brothers, bthe men of Judah, abducted you and brought the king and his household and all David’s men with him, over the Jordan?” 42 Then all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because athe king is a close relative to 1us. Why then are you angry about this matter? Have we eaten at all 2at the king’s expense, or has anything been taken for us?” 43 But the men of Israel answered the men of Judah and said, “1aWe have ten parts in the king, therefore 2we also have more claim on David than you. Why then did you treat 3us with contempt? Was it not 4our 5advice first to bring back 6our king?” Yet the words of the men of Judah were harsher than the words of the men of Israel.

Joab Reproves David’s Lament

Then it was told Joab, “Behold, athe king is weeping and mourns for Absalom.” The 1victory that day was turned to mourning for all the people, for the people heard it said that day, “The king is grieved for his son.” So the people went by stealth into the city that day, as people who are humiliated steal away when they flee in battle. The king acovered his face and 1cried out with a loud voice, “bO my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!” Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “Today you have covered with shame the faces of all your servants, who today have saved your life and the lives of your sons and daughters, the lives of your wives, and the lives of your concubines, by loving those who hate you, and by hating those who love you. For you have shown today that 1princes and servants are nothing to you; for I know this day that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then 2you would be pleased. Now therefore arise, go out and speak 1kindly to your servants, for I swear by the LORD, if you do not go out, surely anot a man will pass the night with you, and this will be worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now.”

David Restored as King

So the king arose and sat in the gate. When they told all the people, saying, “Behold, the king is asitting in the gate,” then all the people came before the king.

Now bIsrael had fled, each to his tent. All the people were quarreling throughout all the tribes of Israel, saying, “aThe king delivered us from the 1hand of our enemies and bsaved us from the 2hand of the Philistines, but now che has fled out of the land from Absalom. 10 However, Absalom, whom we anointed over us, has died in battle. Now then, why are you silent about bringing the king back?”

11 Then King David sent to aZadok and Abiathar the priests, saying, “Speak to the elders of Judah, saying, ‘Why are you the last to bring the king back to his house, since the word of all Israel has come to the king, even to his house? 12 You are my brothers; ayou are my bone and my flesh. Why then should you be the last to bring back the king?’ 13 Say to aAmasa, ‘Are you not my bone and my flesh? bMay God do so to me, and more also, if you will not be ccommander of the army before me continually din place of Joab.’” 14 Thus he turned the hearts of all the men of Judah aas one man, so that they sent word to the king, saying,Return, you and all your servants.” 15 The king then returned and came as far as the Jordan. And Judah came to aGilgal in order to go to meet the king, to bring the king across the Jordan.

16 Then aShimei the son of Gera, the Benjamite who was from Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men of Judah to meet King David. 17 There were a thousand men of Benjamin with him, with aZiba the servant of the house of Saul, and his fifteen sons and his twenty servants with him; and they rushed to the Jordan before the king. 18 Then they kept crossing the ford to bring over the king’s household, and to do what was good in his sight. And Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king as he was about to cross the Jordan. 19 So he said to the king, “aLet not my lord consider me guilty, nor remember what your servant did wrong on the day when my lord the king came out from Jerusalem, so that the king would 1take it to heart. 20 For your servant knows that I have sinned; therefore behold, I have come today, athe first of all the house of Joseph to go down to meet my lord the king.” 21 But Abishai the son of Zeruiah said, “aShould not Shimei be put to death for this, bbecause he cursed the LORDS anointed?” 22 David then said, “aWhat have I to do with you, O sons of Zeruiah, that you should this day be an adversary to me? bShould any man be put to death in Israel today? For do I not know that I am king over Israel today?” 23 The king said to Shimei, “aYou shall not die.” Thus the king swore to him.

24 Then aMephibosheth the 1son of Saul came down to meet the king; and bhe had neither 2cared for his feet, nor 3trimmed his mustache, nor cwashed his clothes, from the day the king departed until the day he came home in peace. 25 It was when he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, that the king said to him, “aWhy did you not go with me, Mephibosheth?” 26 So he answered, “O my lord, the king, my servant deceived me; for your servant said, ‘I will saddle a donkey for myself that I may ride on it and go with the king,’ abecause your servant is lame. 27 Moreover, ahe has slandered your servant to my lord the king; but my lord the king is blike the angel of God, therefore do what is good in your sight. 28 For aall my father’s household was nothing but dead men before my lord the king; byet you set your servant among those who ate at your own table. What right do I have yet that I should 1complain anymore to the king?” 29 So the king said to him, “Why do you still speak of your affairs? I have 1decided, ‘You and Ziba shall divide the land.’” 30 Mephibosheth said to the king, “Let him even take it all, since my lord the king has come safely to his own house.”

31 Now aBarzillai the Gileadite had come down from Rogelim; and he went on to the Jordan with the king to 1escort him over the Jordan. 32 Now Barzillai was very old, being eighty years old; and he had 1asustained the king while he stayed at Mahanaim, for he was a very great man. 33 The king said to Barzillai, “You cross over with me and I will 1sustain you in Jerusalem with me.” 34 But Barzillai said to the king, “aHow long 1have I yet to live, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem? 35 I am 1now aeighty years old. Can I distinguish between good and bad? Or can your servant taste what I eat or what I drink? Or can I hear anymore bthe voice of singing men and women? cWhy then should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king? 36 Your servant would merely cross over the Jordan with the king. Why should the king compensate me with this reward? 37 Please let your servant return, that I may die in my own city near the grave of my father and my mother. However, here is your servant aChimham, let him cross over with my lord the king, and do for him what is good in your sight.” 38 The king answered, “Chimham shall cross over with me, and I will do for him what is good in your sight; and whatever you 1require of me, I will do for you.” 39 All the people crossed over the Jordan and the king crossed too. The king then akissed Barzillai and blessed him, and he returned to his place.

40 Now the king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went on with him; and all the people of Judah and also ahalf the people of Israel 1accompanied the king. 41 And behold, all the men of Israel came to the king and said to the king, “aWhy had our brothers bthe men of Judah stolen you away, and brought the king and his household and all David’s men with him over the Jordan?” 42 Then all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because athe king is a close relative to 1us. Why then 2are you angry about this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king’s expense, or has 3anything been taken for us?” 43 But the men of Israel answered the men of Judah and said, “1aWe have ten parts in the king, therefore 2we also have more claim on David than you. Why then did you treat us with contempt? Was it not 3our advice first to bring back 4our king?” Yet the words of the men of Judah were harsher than the words of the men of Israel.

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