Now Joab the son of Zeruiah knew that athe king’s heart longed for Absalom.2 Sam 13:39 2 So Joab sent word to aTekoa and had a wise woman brought from there and told her, “Please pretend to be a mourner, and put on mourning clothes, and do not banoint yourself with oil, but act like a woman who has for many days been in mourning for the dead.2 Sam 23:26; 2 Chr 11:6; Amos 1:12 Sam 12:20 3 Then go to the king and speak to him in this way.” So Joab 1told her awhat to say.Lit put the words in her mouth.2 Sam 14:19
4 When the woman of Tekoa spoke to the king, she bowed with her face to the ground and alay herself down, and said, “bHelp, O king.”1 Sam 25:232 Kin 6:26-28 5 The king asked her, “1What is the matter?” She said, “Truly I am a widow; my husband is dead.Lit What’s with you. 6 Your maidservant had two sons, but the two of them struggled and fought in the field. There was no one to separate them, so one struck the other and killed him. 7 Now behold, the aentire family has risen against your maidservant, and they say, ‘Hand over the one who killed his brother, so that we may 1put him to death to pay for the life of his brother whom he killed and bdestroy the heir also.’ By doing this they will extinguish my coal that is left, leaving my husband without a name or a remnant on the face of the earth.”The custom of the time permitted a near relative of the victim to kill the perpetrator.Num 35:19; Deut 19:12, 13Matt 21:38
8 Then David said to the woman, “Go to your home, and I will give orders concerning you.” 9 The woman of Tekoa said to the king, “My lord, O king, athe guilt is on me and on my father’s house, but bthe king and his throne are guiltless.”Gen 43:9; 1 Sam 25:241 Kin 2:33 10 The king said, “If anyone speaks to you about this matter, bring him to me for judgment, and he will not touch you again.” 11 Then she said, “Please let the king remember the LORD your God, aso that the avenger of blood will not continue to destroy, otherwise they will destroy my son.” And David said, “bAs the LORD lives, not a single hair from the head of your son shall fall to the ground.”Num 35:19, 21; Deut 19:4-101 Sam 14:45; 1 Kin 1:52; Matt 10:30
12 Then the woman said, “Please let your maidservant speak one more word to my lord the king.” He said, “Speak.” 13 The woman said, “aNow why have you planned such a thing against God’s people? For in speaking this word the king is like a guilty man, in that the king does not bring back bhis banished one.2 Sam 12:7; 1 Kin 20:40-422 Sam 13:37, 38 14 For awe will certainly die and are blike water that is spilled on the ground and cannot be gathered up again. Yet God does not simply take away life, but devises plans so that cthe one who is banished is not driven away from Him.Job 30:23; 34:15; Heb 9:27Ps 58:7Num 35:15, 25, 28 15 Now I came to speak of this matter to my lord the king because the people have made me afraid. So your maidservant thought, ‘I will just speak to the king; perhaps the king will do what his maidservant requests. 16 For the king will hear and save his maidservant from the hand of the man who would destroy me and my son together from athe inheritance of God.’Deut 32:9; 1 Sam 26:19 17 Then your maidservant said, ‘Please let the word of my lord the king be comforting, for my lord the king is as the aangel of God to discern good and evil. May the LORD your God be with you.’”1 Sam 29:9; 2 Sam 14:20; 19:27
18 Then the king answered and said to the woman, “Do not hide from me anything that I ask you.” And the woman said, “Let my lord the king please speak.” 19 The king said, “Is the hand of Joab with you in all of this?” And the woman answered, “As your soul lives, my lord the king, no one can turn to the right or to the left from anything that my lord the king has said. Indeed, it was ayour servant Joab who commanded me; he put all these words in the mouth of your maidservant.2 Sam 14:3 20 In order to change the appearance of things between Absalom and you, his father your servant Joab did this thing. But my lord has wisdom alike the wisdom of the angel of God, to know everything that is in the earth.”2 Sam 14:17; 19:27
21 Then the king said to Joab, “Listen, aI will most certainly do this thing; now go, bring back the young man Absalom.”2 Sam 14:11 22 Joab bowed his face toward the ground and lay himself down and blessed the king. Then Joab said, “Today your servant knows that I have found favor in your sight, my lord, O king, in that the king has done the request of his servant.” 23 So Joab got up, went to aGeshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem.Deut 3:14; 2 Sam 13:37, 38 24 However, the king said, “Let him go to ahis own house, and do not let him see my face.” So Absalom went to his own house and did not see the king’s face.2 Sam 13:20
25 Now in all Israel there was no man as handsome as Absalom, so highly praised for that; afrom the sole of his foot to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him.Deut 28:35; Job 2:7; Is 1:6 26 When he acut the hair of his head (for at the end of each year he cut it, because its weight was heavy on him) he weighed the hair of his head at 1200 shekels by the king’s weight.I.e. about 4 lbs.Ezek 44:20 27 To aAbsalom were born three sons and one daughter whose name was 1bTamar; she was a beautiful woman.Absalom named his daughter after his sister.2 Sam 18:182 Sam 13:1
28 Absalom lived two full years in Jerusalem, awithout seeing the king’s face.2 Sam 14:24 29 So Absalom sent for Joab, to send him to the king, but he would not come to him; even when he sent again a second time, he still would not come. 30 Therefore Absalom said to his servants, “See, aJoab’s property is near mine, and he has barley there; go and set it on fire.” So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire.Judg 15:3-5 31 Then Joab 1took action and went to Absalom at his house and said to him, “Why did your servants set my field on fire?”Lit arose. 32 Absalom answered Joab, “I sent for you, saying, ‘Come here, so that I may send you to the king to ask, “Why have I come back from Geshur? It would be better for me to still be there.”’ Now then, let me see the king’s face, aand if there is guilt in me, let him put me to death.”1 Sam 20:8; Prov 28:13 33 So Joab came to the king and told him. Then David called for Absalom, and he came to the king and bowed his face to the ground before athe king; and the king kissed Absalom.Gen 33:4; Luke 15:20