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Teaching on Marriage

Now as to the matters of which you wrote: It is agood (beneficial, advantageous) for a man not to touch a woman outside marriage. But because of the temptation to participate in sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. The husband must fulfill his marital duty to his wife with good will and kindness, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have exclusive authority over her own body, but the husband shares with her; and likewise the husband does not have exclusive authority over his body, but the wife shares with him. aDo not deprive each other of marital rights, except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves unhindered to prayer, but come together again so that bSatan will not tempt you to sin because of your lack of self-control. But I am saying this as a concession, anot as a command. I wish that all the people were aas I am; but beach person has his own gift from God, one of this kind and one of that.

But I say to the unmarried and to the widows, that as a practical matter it is agood if they remain single and entirely devoted to the Lord 1bas I am. But if they do not have sufficient self-control, athey should marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 But to the 1married believers I give instructions—anot I, but the Lord—that the wife is not to separate from her husband, 11 (but even if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be 1reconciled to her husband) and that the husband should not leave his wife.

12 To the 1rest aI declare—I, not the Lord since Jesus did not discuss this—that if any believing brother has a wife who does not believe in Christ, and she consents to live with him, he must not leave her. 13 And if any believing woman has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is 1sanctified that is, he receives the blessings granted through his Christian wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be ceremonially 2unclean, but as it is they are aholy. 15 But if the unbelieving partner leaves, let him leave. In such cases the remaining brother or sister is not spiritually or morally bound. But God has called us ato 1peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will asave your husband by leading him to Christ? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife by leading her to Christ?

17 Only, let each one live the life which athe Lord has assigned him, and to which God has called him for each person is unique and is accountable for his choices and conduct, let him walk in this way. bThis is the rule I make in call the churches. 18 Was anyone at the time of his calling from God already circumcised? He is not to 1become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called while uncircumcised? 2aHe is not to be circumcised. Gal 5:1-3 19 aCircumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is bkeeping the commandments of God. 20 aEach one should remain in the condition in which he was when he was called.

21 Were you a slave when you were called? Do not worry about that since your status as a believer is 1equal to that of a freeborn believer; but if you are able to gain your freedom, 2do that. 22 For he who was a slave when he was called in the Lord is a afreedman of the Lord, likewise he who was free when he was called is a bslave of Christ. 23 aYou were bought with a price a precious price paid by Christ; do not become slaves to men but to Christ. 24 Brothers, let aeach one remain with God in that condition in which he was when he was called.

25 Now concerning the virgins of marriageable age I have ano command of the Lord, but I give my opinion as one who bby the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. 26 I think then that because of the impending adistress that is, the pressure of the current trouble, bit is good for a man to remain as he is. 27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you 1unmarried? Do not seek a wife. 28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned in doing so; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned in doing so. Yet those who marry will have troubles (special challenges) in this life, and I am trying to spare you that. 29 But I say this, believers: athe 1time has been shortened, so that from now on even those who have wives should be as though they did not; 30 and those who weep, as though they did not weep; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess anything; 31 and those who use the world taking advantage of its opportunities, as though they did not amake full use of it. For bthe outward form of this world its present social and material nature is passing away.

32 But I want you to be free from concern. The aunmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33 but the married man is concerned about worldly things, how he may please his wife, 34 and his interests are divided. The unmarried woman or the virgin is concerned about the matters of the Lord, how to be holy and set apart both in body and in spirit; but a married woman is concerned about worldly things, how she may please her husband. 35 Now I say this for your own benefit; not to restrict you, but to promote what is appropriate and secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

36 But if any man thinks that he is not acting properly and honorably toward his virgin daughter, 1by not permitting her to marry, if she is 2past her youth, and it must be so, let him do as he wishes, he does not sin; let her marry. 37 But the man who stands firmly committed in his heart, having no compulsion to yield to his daughter’s request, and has authority over his own will, and has decided in his own heart to keep his own virgin daughter from being married, he will do well. 38 So then both the father who gives his virgin daughter in marriage does well, and he who does not give her in marriage will do better.

39 aA wife is bound to her husband by law as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry whomever she wishes, only provided that he too is bin the Lord. 40 But ain my opinion a widow is happier if she stays as she is. And I think that I also have the Spirit of God in this matter.

Teaching on Marriage

Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is agood for a man 1not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise the wife also to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise the husband also does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 1aStop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and 2come together again so that bSatan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But this I say by way of concession, anot of command. 1Yet I wish that all 2men were aeven as I myself am. However, beach has his own gift from God, one in this way, and another in that.

But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is agood for them if they remain beven as I. But if they do not have self-control, alet them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 But to the married I give instructions, anot I, but the Lord, that the wife is not to leave her husband 11 (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband is not to 1divorce his wife.

12 But to the rest aI say, not the Lord, that if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she consents to live with him, he must not 1divorce her. 13 And 1if any woman has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not 2divorce her husband. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through 1her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are aholy. 15 Yet if the unbelieving one is leaving, 1let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called 2us ain peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will asave your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

17 Only, aas the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this way let him walk. And bso I direct in call the churches. 18 Was any man called when he was already circumcised? He is not to become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? aHe is not to be circumcised. 19 aCircumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is bthe keeping of the commandments of God. 20 aEach person is to remain in that 1state in which he was called.

21 Were you called as a slave? Do not let it concern you. But if you are also able to become free, take advantage of that. 22 For the one who was called in the Lord as a slave, is athe Lord’s freed person; likewise the one who was called as free, is bChrist’s slave. 23 aYou were bought for a price; do not become slaves of people. 24 Brothers and sisters, aeach one is to remain with God in that condition in which he was called.

25 Now concerning virgins, I have ano command of the Lord, but I am offering direction as one who 1bby the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy. 26 I think, then, that this is good in view of the 1present adistress, that bit is good for a man 2to remain as he is. 27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such people as yourselves will have 1trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you. 29 But this I say, brothers, athe time has been shortened, so that from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none; 30 and those who weep, as though they did not weep; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess; 31 and those who use the world, as though they did not amake full use of it; for bthe present form of this world is passing away.

32 But I want you to be free from concern. One who is aunmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33 but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34 and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 I say this for your own benefit, not to put a restraint on you, but 1to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

36 But if anyone thinks that he is acting dishonorably toward his virgin, if she is 1past her youth and it ought to be so, let him do what he wishes, he is not sinning; let 2them marry. 37 But the one who stands firm in his heart, 1if he is not under constraint, but has authority 2over his own will, and has decided this in his own heart, to keep his own virgin, he will do well. 38 So then, both the one who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and the one who does not give her in marriage will do better.

39 aA wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband 1dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only bin the Lord. 40 But ain my opinion she is 1happier if she remains as she is; and I think that I also have the Spirit of God.

Teaching on Marriage

Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is agood for a man not to touch a woman. But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must 1fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. aStop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and 1come together again so that bSatan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But this I say by way of concession, anot of command. 1Yet I wish that all men were aeven as I myself am. However, beach man has his own gift from God, one in this manner, and another in that.

But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is agood for them if they remain beven as I. But if they do not have self-control, alet them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 But to the married I give instructions, anot I, but the Lord, that the wife should not 1leave her husband 11 (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not 1divorce his wife.

12 But to the rest aI say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not 1divorce her. 13 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not 1send her husband away. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through 1her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are aholy. 15 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called 1us 2ato peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will asave your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?

17 Only, aas the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk. And bso I direct in call the churches. 18 Was any man called when he was already circumcised? He is not to become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? aHe is not to be circumcised. 19 aCircumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is bthe keeping of the commandments of God. 20 aEach man must remain in that 1condition in which he was called.

21 Were you called while a slave? 1Do not worry about it; but if you are able also to become free, rather 2do that. 22 For he who was called in the Lord while a slave, is athe Lord’s freedman; likewise he who was called while free, is bChrist’s slave. 23 aYou were bought with a price; do not become slaves of men. 24 Brethren, aeach one is to remain with God in that condition in which he was called.

25 Now concerning virgins I have ano command of the Lord, but I give an opinion as one who 1bby the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy. 26 I think then that this is good in view of the 1present adistress, that bit is good for a man 2to remain as he is. 27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have 1trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you. 29 But this I say, brethren, athe time has been shortened, so that from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none; 30 and those who weep, as though they did not weep; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess; 31 and those who use the world, as though they did not amake full use of it; for bthe form of this world is passing away.

32 But I want you to be free from concern. One who is aunmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33 but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34 and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but 1to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

36 But if any man thinks that he is acting unbecomingly toward his virgin daughter, if she is past her youth, and if it must be so, let him do what he wishes, he does not sin; let 1her marry. 37 But he who stands firm in his heart, 1being under no constraint, but has authority 2over his own will, and has decided this in his own heart, to keep his own virgin daughter, he will do well. 38 So then both he who gives his own virgin daughter in marriage does well, and he who does not give her in marriage will do better.

39 aA wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband 1is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only bin the Lord. 40 But ain my opinion she is happier if she remains as she is; and I think that I also have the Spirit of God.

Concerning Marriage and Singleness

Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is agood for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must 1fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. aStop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and 1come together again so that bSatan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But this I say as a concession, anot as a command. 1Yet I wish that all men were aeven as I myself am. However, beach man has his own gift from God, one this way, and another that.

But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is agood for them if they remain beven as I. But if they do not have self-control, alet them marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 But to the married I give instructions, anot I, but the Lord, that the wife should not 1leave her husband 11 (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not 1divorce his wife.

12 But to the rest aI say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not 1divorce her. 13 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not divorce her husband. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through 1her believing husband. For otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are aholy. 15 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave. The brother or the sister is not enslaved in such cases, but God has called 1us 2ato peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will asave your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?

17 Only, aas the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk. And bso I direct in call the churches. 18 Was any man called when he was already circumcised? He is not to become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? aHe is not to be circumcised. 19 aCircumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is bthe keeping of the commandments of God. 20 aEach man must remain in that 1condition in which he was called.

21 Were you called while a slave? 1Do not worry about it. But if you are able also to become free, rather 2do that. 22 For he who was called in the Lord while a slave, is athe Lord’s freedman. Likewise he who was called while free, is bChrist’s slave. 23 aYou were bought with a price; do not become slaves of men. 24 Brothers, aeach one is to remain with God in that condition in which he was called.

25 Now concerning virgins I have ano command of the Lord, but I give an opinion as one who 1bby the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy. 26 I think then that this is good because of the 1present adistress, that bit is good for a man 2to remain as he is. 27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have 1trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you. 29 But this I say, brothers, athe time has been shortened, so that from now on those who have wives should be as though they had none; 30 and those who cry, as though they did not cry; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess; 31 and those who use the world, as though they did not amake full use of it. For bthe form of this world is passing away.

32 But I want you to be free from concern. One who is aunmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord. 33 But one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34 and his interests have been divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit. But one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 Now this I say for your own benefit, not to put a restraint upon you, but 1to promote propriety and undistracted devotion to the Lord.

36 But if any man thinks that he is acting unbecomingly toward his virgin daughter, if she is past her youth, and if it must be so, let him do what he wishes, he does not sin; let 1her marry. 37 But he who stands firm in his heart, 1being under no compulsion, but has authority 2over his own will, and has decided this in his own heart, to keep his own virgin daughter, he will do well. 38 So then both he who gives his own virgin daughter in marriage does well, and he who does not give her in marriage will do better.

39 aA wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband has 1fallen asleep, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only bin the Lord. 40 But ain my opinion she is happier if she remains as she is. And I think that I also have the Spirit of God.

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