aThere was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David; but David grew steadily stronger, while the house of Saul grew weaker and weaker to the point of being powerless.1 Kin 14:30; Ps 46:9
2 aSons were born to David in Hebron: his firstborn was Amnon, by bAhinoam of Jezreel;1 Chr 3:1-31 Sam 25:42, 43 3 his second, Chileab, by Abigail the widow of Nabal of Carmel; the third, Absalom the son of his wife aMaacah, daughter of Talmai the king of bGeshur;1 Sam 27:8; 1 Chr 3:22 Sam 14:32; 15:8 4 the fourth, aAdonijah the son of his wife Haggith; the fifth, Shephatiah the son of his wife Abital;1 Kin 1:5 5 and the sixth, Ithream, by David’s wife Eglah. These sons were born to David in Hebron.
6 Now while war continued between the houses of Saul and David, aAbner was proving himself strong in the house of Saul.2 Sam 2:8, 9 7 Now Saul had a 1concubine whose name was aRizpah the daughter of Aiah; and Ish-bosheth said to Abner,2 “Why have you gone in to my father’s concubine?”See note Gen 22:24.Being intimate with the former king’s concubine was a way for Abner to assert a claim on the throne.2 Sam 21:8-11 8 Then Abner was very angry at the words of Ish-bosheth, and he said, “aAm I a dog’s head a despicable traitor that belongs to Judah? 1Today I show loyalty and kindness to the house of Saul your father, to his brothers and his friends, by not having you handed over to David; and yet you charge me today with guilt concerning this woman.Abner reminds Ish-bosheth that he put Ish-bosheth on the throne of Israel.1 Sam 24:14; 2 Sam 9:8 9 aMay God do so to Abner, and more also, if I do not do for David bjust as the LORD has sworn to him,1 Kin 19:21 Sam 15:28 10 ato transfer the kingdom from the house of Saul, and establish the throne of David over Israel and Judah from bDan in the north to Beersheba in the south.”1 Sam 15:281 Sam 3:20 11 And Ish-bosheth could not say another word to Abner, because he was afraid of him.
12 Then Abner sent messengers to David who was in his place at Hebron, saying, “Whose is the land? Make your covenant with me, and behold, my hand shall be with you to bring all Israel over to you.” 13 David said, “Good! I will make a covenant with you, but I require one thing of you: ayou shall not see my face unless you bfirst bring Michal, Saul’s daughter, when you come to see 1me.”Lit see my face.Gen 43:31 Sam 18:20; 19:11 14 So David sent messengers to Ish-bosheth, Saul’s son, saying, “1Give me my wife Michal, to whom I was 2betrothed afor the price of a hundred foreskins of the Philistines.”Saul promised Michal to David as his wife. See 1 Sam 18:25-27.I.e. a legal and binding promise of marriage.1 Sam 18:25, 27 15 So Ish-bosheth sent and took her from her husband, from Paltiel the son of Laish to whom Saul had given her. 16 But her husband went with her, weeping continually behind her as far as aBahurim. Then Abner told him, “Go, return.” And he did so.2 Sam 16:5; 19:16
17 Abner talked with athe elders of Israel, saying, “In times past you were seeking for David to be king over you.1 Sam 8:4 18 Now then, do it and make him king! For the LORD has spoken of David, saying, ‘aBy the hand of My servant David I will save My people Israel from the hand of the Philistines and the hand of all their enemies.’” 1+@Sam 9:161 Sam 9:16; 15:28 19 Abner also spoke 1to the men of Benjamin. Then he also went to 2tell David at Hebron everything that seemed good 3to Israel and to athe entire house of Benjamin.Lit in the ears of Benjamin.Lit speak in the ears of David.Lit in the eyes of Israel.1 Sam 10:20, 21; 1 Chr 12:29
20 So Abner came to David at Hebron, and brought twenty men along with him. And David prepared a feast for Abner and the men with him. 21 Abner said to David, “Let me stand up and go, and agather all Israel to my lord the king, so that they may make a covenant with you, and that byou may reign over all that your soul desires.” So David sent Abner away, and he went in peace.2 Sam 3:10, 121 Kin 11:37
22 Then athe servants of David came with Joab from a raid and brought a great quantity of spoil with them; but Abner was not with David at Hebron, because David had sent him away, and he had gone in peace.1 Sam 27:8 23 When Joab and all the army that was with him arrived, they told Joab, “Abner the son of Ner came to the king, and he has sent him away, and he has gone in peace.” 24 Then Joab came to the king and said, “What have you done? Behold, Abner came to you; why did you send him away, so that he is already gone? 25 You know Abner the son of Ner, that he only came to deceive you with flattering words and to learn of ayour going out and coming in, and to find out what you are doing.”Deut 28:6; 1 Sam 29:6; Is 37:28
26 When Joab left David, he sent messengers after Abner, and they brought him back from the well of Sirah; but David knew nothing about Joab’s action. 27 So when Abner returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside to the middle of the gate to speak to him privately, and there ahe struck Abner in the abdomen so that he died, 1to avenge the blood of Asahel, Joab’s brother.This was an act of murder, not justifiable revenge, because Abner had killed Asahel in self-defense during a battle.2 Sam 2:23; 20:9, 10; 1 Kin 2:5 28 Afterward, when David heard of it, he said, “I and my kingdom are forever innocent before the LORD of the blood of Abner the son of Ner. 29 aLet 1the guilt fall on the head of Joab and on all his father’s house ; and may there never disappear from the house of Joab bone who suffers with a discharge or one who is a leper or one who walks with a crutch being unfit for war, or one who falls by the sword, or one who lacks food.”Lit it.Deut 21:6-9; 1 Kin 2:31-33Lev 13:46 30 So Joab and Abishai his brother murdered Abner abecause he had killed their brother Asahel in the battle at Gibeon.2 Sam 2:23
31 Then David said to Joab and to all the people with him, “aTear your clothes, put on sackcloth, and mourn before Abner.” And King David walked behind the bier.Gen 37:34; Judg 11:35 32 They buried Abner in Hebron; and the king raised his voice and wept at athe grave of Abner, and all the people wept.Job 31:28, 29; Prov 24:17 33 And athe king sang a dirge over Abner and said,“Should Abner the great warrior die as a fool dies?2 Sam 1:17; 2 Chr 35:25
35 All the people came ato urge David to eat food while it was still day; but David took an oath, saying, “bMay God do so to me, and more also, if I taste bread or anything else cbefore the sun sets.”2 Sam 12:171 Sam 3:172 Sam 1:12 36 And all the people took notice of it and it 1pleased them, just as everything that the king did pleased all the people.Lit was good in their eyes. 37 So all the people and all Israel understood that day that it had not been the will of the king to put Abner the son of Ner to death. 38 Then the king said to his servants, “Do you not know that a prince and a great man has fallen this day in Israel? 39 Today I am aweak, though anointed king; these men, the bsons of Zeruiah, are too difficult for me. cMay the LORD repay the evildoer Joab in accordance with his wickedness!”1 Chr 29:1; 2 Chr 13:72 Sam 19:5-71 Kin 2:32-34