It was told to Joab, “Behold, athe king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.”2 Sam 18:5, 14 2 So the victory on that day was turned into mourning for all the people, for the people heard it said on that day, “The king grieves for his son.” 3 The people stole into the city of Mahanaim that day, as people who are humiliated and ashamed steal away when they retreat in battle. 4 But the king acovered his face and cried out with a loud voice, “bO my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!”2 Sam 15:302 Sam 18:33 5 Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “Today you have put all your servants to shame who this day have saved your life and the lives of your sons and your daughters, and the lives of your wives and 1concubines.See note Gen 22:24. 6 For you love those who hate you and hate those who love you. For you have shown today that commanders and servants are nothing to you; for today I know that if Absalom had lived and all the rest of us had died today, then you would be pleased. 7 So now stand up, go out and speak kindly and encouragingly to your servants; for I swear by the LORD that if you do not go out, anot a man will stay with you tonight. And this will be worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now.”Prov 14:28
8 Then the king stood and sat at the gate of Mahanaim. And they told all the people, “The king is asitting at the gate,” and all the people came before the king.2 Sam 15:2; 18:242 Sam 18:17
But bIsrael Absalom’s troops had fled, every man to his tent. 9 All the people were quarreling throughout the tribes of Israel, saying, “aThe king rescued us from the hands of our enemies, and he bsaved us from the hands of the Philistines, but now che has fled out of the land from Absalom.2 Sam 8:1-142 Sam 5:20; 8:12 Sam 15:14 10 And Absalom, whom we anointed over us, has died in battle. So now, why are you leaders doing nothing about bringing back the king?”
11 Then King David sent word to aZadok and to Abiathar the priests, saying, “Say to the elders of Judah, ‘Why are you the last to bring the king back to his house in Jerusalem, since the word of all Israel has come to the king, and to his house?2 Sam 15:29 12 You are my brothers ; ayou are my bone and my flesh. Why then are you the last to bring back the king?’2 Sam 5:1 13 Say to aAmasa the commander of Absalom’s troops, ‘Are you not my bone and my flesh? bMay God do so to me, and more also, if you will not be ccommander of my army from now on din place of Joab.’”2 Sam 17:251 Kin 19:22 Sam 8:162 Sam 3:27-39; 19:5-7 14 In this way he changed the hearts of all the men of Judah aas one man, so they sent word to the king, “Return, you and all your 1servants.”See note 15:14.Judg 20:1 15 So David returned and came to the Jordan. And supporters from Judah came to aGilgal to meet the king, to escort him across the Jordan.Josh 5:9; 1 Sam 11:14, 15
16 Then aShimei the son of Gera, a Benjamite of Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men from the tribe of Judah to meet King David,2 Sam 16:5-13; 1 Kin 2:8 17 and a thousand men from the tribe of Benjamin with him. And aZiba, the servant of the house of Saul, and his fifteen sons and twenty servants with him, rushed down to the Jordan before the king.2 Sam 16:1-4; 19:26, 27 18 Then they repeatedly crossed the ford to bring over the king’s household , and to do what pleased him. And Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king as he was about to cross the Jordan, 19 and said to the king, “aLet not my lord consider me guilty, nor remember what your servant did 1wrong on the day my lord the king left Jerusalem, so that the king would take it to heart.Shimei’s insulting behavior is recorded in 16:5-8.1 Sam 22:15; 2 Sam 16:6-8 20 For your servant knows that I have sinned; therefore, behold, I have come today, athe first of all the 1house of Joseph to come down to meet my lord the king.”A general reference to the ten northern tribes. The most important tribes in the north descended from Ephraim and Manasseh, Joseph’s sons.2 Sam 16:5 21 But Abishai the son of Zeruiah said, “aShould not Shimei be put to death for this, bbecause he cursed the LORD’S anointed?”2 Sam 16:7, 8Ex 22:28 22 David said, “aWhat 1business is this of yours, you sons of Zeruiah, that you should be an adversary to me today? bShould anyone be put to death in Israel today? For do I not know that today I am king over Israel?”Lit to me and to you.2 Sam 3:39; 16:9, 101 Sam 11:13 23 Therefore the king said to Shimei, “aYou shall not be put to death.” And so the king gave him his promise. 1+@Kin 2:44-461 Kin 2:8
24 aThen Mephibosheth the grandson of Saul came down to meet the king, but he bhad not cared for his feet, nor trimmed his mustache, nor cwashed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned in peace and safety.2 Sam 9:6-102 Sam 12:20Ex 19:10 25 And when he came to Jerusalem to meet the king, the king said to him, “aWhy did you not go with me, Mephibosheth?”2 Sam 16:17 26 He said, “My lord the king, my servant Ziba betrayed me; for I said, ‘Saddle a donkey for me so that I may ride on it and go with the king,’ afor your servant is lame but he took the donkeys and left without me. 2+@Sam 16:1-42 Sam 9:3 27 aFurther, he has slandered your servant to my lord the king; but my lord the king is like bthe angel of God; so do what is good in your eyes.2 Sam 16:3, 42 Sam 14:17, 20 28 For were not aall of my father’s household nothing but dead men before my lord the king; byet you set your servant among those who ate at your own table. So what right do I still have to cry out anymore to the king for help?”2 Sam 21:6-92 Sam 9:7, 10, 13 29 The king said to him, “Why speak anymore of your affairs? I have said, ‘You and Ziba shall divide the land.’” 30 Mephibosheth said to the king, “Let him even take it all, since my lord the king has returned to his own house in safety and peace.”
31 Now aBarzillai the Gileadite came down from Rogelim and went on to the Jordan with the king to escort him over the Jordan.2 Sam 17:27-29; 1 Kin 2:7 32 Barzillai was a very old man, eighty years old; and he had aprovided the king with food while he stayed at Mahanaim, for he was a very great and wealthy man.2 Sam 17:27-29 33 The king said to Barzillai, “Cross over with me and I will provide for you in Jerusalem with me.” 34 But Barzillai said to the king, “aHow much longer have I to live, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem?Gen 47:8 35 I am this day aeighty years old. Can I be useful to advise you to discern between good and bad? Can your servant taste what I eat or drink? Can I still hear bthe voices of singing men and women? cWhy then should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king?Ps 90:10Eccl 2:8; Is 5:11, 122 Sam 15:33 36 Your servant would merely cross over the Jordan with the king. Why should the king compensate me with this reward? 37 Please let your servant return, so that I may die in my own city and be buried by the grave of my father and mother. But here is your servant aChimham my son; let him cross over with my lord the king, and do for him what seems good to you.” 1+@Kin 2:72 Sam 19:40; 1 Kin 2:7; Jer 41:17 38 The king answered, “Chimham shall cross over with me, and I will do for him what seems good to you; and whatever you ask of me, I will do for you.” 39 So all the people crossed over the Jordan. When the king had crossed over, he akissed Barzillai and blessed him, and he returned to his place.Gen 31:55; Ruth 1:14; 2 Sam 14:33
40 Then the king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went on with him; and all the people of Judah and also ahalf the people of Israel accompanied the king.2 Sam 19:9, 10 41 And all the men of Israel came to the king and said to him, “aWhy have our brothers , bthe men from the tribe of Judah, stolen you away and brought the king and his household and all David’s men with him over the Jordan instead of waiting for us to arrive?”Judg 8:1; 12:12 Sam 19:11, 12 42 Then all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because athe king is a close relative to us. So why then are you angry about this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king’s expense? Or has anything been taken for us?”2 Sam 19:12 43 Then the men of 1Israel answered the men of Judah, “aWe have ten tribes’ shares in the king, and we have more claim on David than you. Why then did you treat us with contempt and ignore us by rushing ahead? Were we not the first to speak of bringing back our king?” 2But the words of the men of Judah were harsher than those of the men of Israel.I.e. the ten tribes of the north.This tribal dispute led to the revolt of Sheba.2 Sam 5:1; 1 Kin 11:30, 31